Feel sorry for Akshara

What i don't understand about Nandani is.......... the first time she met Akshara she told her off by saying don't feel sorry for me and now that Akshara is not feeling sorry for her and actually giving her some good peace of advice about married and how Bhabhimaa is looking out for her daughter. Which Nandani should respect....... Nandani keeps crying. The creatives really need to sort the crying and misunderstanding business out on most of the serials........ It's really getting so boring watching crying episodes!!!