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Difference between a guy flirting or if he likes u

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey members! 😊

I've had guys flirt with me and I could never really tell whether they might actually like me or are just flirting with me for fun. Basically, how could you tell if a guy really does like you or is just flirting with you for fun? It's so confusing and hard to tell sometimes! 😳
 
Please help and thank you for reading! God bless...
 
-Shikha 😉

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Posted: 13 years ago
Hey
 
I know what you mean and this is indeed very confusing. Some boys are really flirting with you but some boys really like you but they are either afraid of their own feeling or they are scared to tell you as you might laugh or refuse so what they basically do is just take the refuge of flirting. These boys that like you but are showing it by flirting with you, i believe is because they want to know what you feel as everyone is scared of refusal. They want to know your real feeling before actually proposing to you. BUt some guys are really flirting with you like for real.
 
I think the best thing to find out is just to be patience and let them flirt but just dont take them seriuosly. You will know it by yourself, if they are flirting with other girl as well or behaving cheaply then you will know that he is a real flirt and stay away otherwise if he is just flirting with you only but respecting you as well, then i think that he might actually like you
 
-Izzy
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Posted: 13 years ago
If a boy's flirting, he doesn't doesn't like you! Alright, boys are mysterious and and mainly the extremists - nerds and flirts.

If a nerd flirts with you, he sure is in love with you, not just LIKES you! 😆

And if a flirt flirts with you, he would flirt more than usual if he likes you but never cross his limit.

To sum it up - You can't really figure out what does the guy feel unless you know some simple and important things about guys!! 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
I find it hard to figure out men sometimes.  Sometimes when they are flirting and get my attention they don't call me anymore.  But when I play hard to get they keep trying to call me and message me.  I think initially all guys flirt just to see if they can get the girl, but then some lose interest and some keep trying to get the girl. 
 
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Posted: 13 years ago
I forgot to say that when you are chatting and flirting with a guy, make sure you be careful and filter out the weirdo's.
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Posted: 13 years ago
i think ko jo apko like krta hai woh apko kisi k sat hbardasht nhe kr pata n secondly woh apko sab k same expose neh krta k woh mere gf hai or sumthing lyk dat yeh kisi se neh kehta.......woh agara apko lyk kre toh wo hapko sab se chupa kr rkhta ahi..........i mean dosre larko se ya bahir ki duniya se..hope u understand wat  i mean....
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Posted: 13 years ago
i dnt even knw whether ive experienced flirting or not
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Posted: 13 years ago
This content was originally posted by: laviza97

i think ko jo apko like krta hai woh apko kisi k sat hbardasht nhe kr pata n secondly woh apko sab k same expose neh krta k woh mere gf hai or sumthing lyk dat yeh kisi se neh kehta.......woh agara apko lyk kre toh wo hapko sab se chupa kr rkhta ahi..........i mean dosre larko se ya bahir ki duniya se..hope u understand wat  i mean....


haya beta... how do u know dis????😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
if they like u.they wont flirt with you..they'll be too nervous
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Posted: 13 years ago
is there physical contact?? Usually that means he likes you!