Fivr,
Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy
@Fivr : Yaar I can understand what u mean there but I guess thats what they were trying to portray in that scene. The background of this story seems to be that of a small town in haryana. The society seems male dominated. The way the other three women have been treated so far indicates to me that its all abt Male domination and women being subdued. Though Aditya can fall in a minority here where he fell in real "love" with a girl and wants to pursue her, his methods will still be the ones he got from his elders and surroundings. The guy is good hearted but then again he is definetly not the one who is gonna give the woman to rule over him. He atleast now wants to take the control. He likes the girl and he assumes (may be his over confidence in here is playing its part) that the girl will have no probs accepting his love. For him, he is the perfect guy for any girl. We have seen very less of him to make that judgement but he seems to be pretty confident abt himself. So his aggression comes in from his confidence. I dont accept it either but I can see where he is coming from, Priya seems to be a pretty confident girl herself, the clash and love is gonna be quite interesting.
Originally posted by: -Fivr-
I guess I can accept that - I was just too blown away by the physical roughness of his methods on a personal level that I was finding it a bit hard to be objective in just this instance. But I'm glad you're here because app ney jaa bacha li! As always! 😳😆Anu : The show is quite intense and me into such intense stuff these days 😆. As long as they can keep me interested, me will stay here as bhoot 😆😆. Laagi is taking up my time, warna u can see me making posts every so often 😆. BTW did anyone sign up to do WU for wed, thursdays? If not I can try doing that as I am free those days from my LTL WUs. Anyways, so coming back to story. Dont worry even me on ur side, girls ke side mein hi hain hum bhi. Ya so what if Aditya is charming 😆, Priya is pretty good too 😛. I could never dream I would say this of our supriya 😆.
So I guess it makes sense what both you and Poppy are trying to say - he is a good guy at heart with a responsible nature but he is still brought up by men who treat women in less than ideal ways. So it's understandable that he too is quick to assume that if he loves a girl, then she'd love him back and have no problem with him or his methods.Anu : Exactly. Thats what is the issue here, Its his character flaw.And if that's the case, then I really wish that Priya tells him other wise and brings about that change in him.Anu : Koi shak math rakho. Wahi hoga 😆. He will change and for good. As per the synopsis the women will fight their personal battles and come out truimphant. Since priya prachand is the main lead, she will have double trouble to solve 😆. One to get Aditya back to ground , and other to resolve her past issue which has been bothering her. Iam sure we will not go the traditional way where Priya is shown falling for the "arrogant" (though I dont like to term him that yet, but cuz of lack of any good word iam using that) Aditya. She will change him directly or indirectly. He sure seems to be a guy who will change for love. He is not like the one who tries to wear a mask and pretend something which he is not.THAT would be interesting to watch. I would hate to see the show and the story glorify this behavior as "ideal-hero" behavior.Anu : and if they gonna go that way, thats gonna be end of my watch 😆.No doubt abt it.I am willing to accept this as his character flaw - this somewhat entitled-behavior around things he care for and people he loves - but I will find it very distasteful if the show goes on without addressing this issue eventually. And given that Priya is supposed to be a strong, independent and opinionated girl, I would find it extremely unrealistic that she'd put up with this without telling him he's being an idiot irrespective of the fact that she may or may not love him.Anu : Yaar she already told him off today. She said "dont act fresh", "iam not the types to fall for ur cheap tricks", "stop following me" and all that. She did say it and iam sure had it not been his direct proposal , she wouldve continued to show him his place. The guy caught her unaware with his proposal. Any woman wouldve been left shocked so was Priya. He is definetly trying the wrong things with a wrong girl 😆.
And come to think of it, she actually does do that - she does not put up with his man-handling and tells him off fiercely! He only managed to stun her into silence by calling her bluff and letting her know that he saw through her pretense and knew that she was trying to commit suicide.. So this just might be something interesting, depending on how it's handled.. *thinks*Anu : Do u think the girl was attempting suicide? Iam not sure . Wasnt it shown that the girl is just lost in thoughts and is not actually planning to die?. Even in the case of the trip at T-Station and now at the door, she just tripped off accidentally. I think Aditya just mistook her one-way ticket to be an indication of suicide. Priya seems confident and I dont feel she is the one who wants to end her life abruptly.
Nonetheless, I'll be a bit weary and tread lightly. I've seen way too many wife-beaters and women-abusers being glorified by our television as the "ideal man" and the "perfect husband" - itni burey experiences k baad toh I guess I'll need to see them actually do it before I believe that they won't be glorifying Aditya's behavior.. 😆Anu : Glorify nahin 😆, dumping Aditya's character hojayega if they make him into a "hero" with his so called "getting physical" act. I hope Priya will teach him how to behave with women, while Aditya teaches her to love/trust him.
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