I know what you're going through. I became great friends with this boy at my college, and I really did like him a lot. He and I spent a lot time together, and people used to think we were dating. 😆 Neither of us shared personal things with many people, but we trusted each other a lot. I don't know when I started liking him more than a friend, but as my liking kept increasing, I was unaware of the fact that our friendship was getting distant. I started realizing it, and I would ask him what happened, etc, but he would tell me our friendship is like normal. It was not because he was avoid talking to me, and he would not answer my calls or text or hang out with me. It was strange because we were such good friends before. it was hard for me to let go, and even though I ended up moving (not because of him!), I still remembered him in my new college. It was hard even making friends in general because I was not able to think about anyone else or do anything.
Then not too long after I moved, he gets a girlfriend! I was completely crushed, but i think this helped me move on. I was like, "If he can get another girl, I can get another guy! A guy much better than him who will have value for my feelings." Then, after some time I started believing it. (Now, I have not found my Mr. Perfect, but I'm sure he exists. 😳) If that boy was really the one for me, things would have worked out. My life has improved SO much, and I'm a MUCH happier and stronger person because I let go of my feelings. I realized, it's not worth hurting myself for someone who doesn't care about me.
I hope you can also see that too. It will take time, but you will overcome it too.
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