Star Of The Day : 2nd March 2011 - Page 2

Vandu for taking a stand 👍🏼

@Tanyaz What Manav is doing is not justified. Asking forgiveness for his mistake and in turn asking Savita to forgive Archu is ridiculous. This is not a give and take policy. This is a relationship between mother and son and you cannot make a give and take policy out of that which is completely wrong. In spite of all that savita was the only one who defended Manav. Well our Mahan Archu even though was right could in saying its our life and u dont have to interfere ,no one could shut their mouths ,the way she screamed her heart out for her son ,well Tanyaz any son in the world should be proud that he has such a mom who in spite of everything always comes for his rescue that theft blame game is an example. I think this issue is between Manav and savita and he should sort it out of himself and Savita and Archu its Archu responsibility to sort it out. Both are no way related n its not some business deal where one can say if savita forgives Archu then only I will ask forgiveness. This is stupidity by Manav.

This content was originally posted by: Tanyaz

 

Yes always sweet and always be abused . How could Ajit slap her ?? vandu should  be seriosuly angry with him ..to hell with sweetnes yaar ..

Yes Di,Vandu should be angry with him and they should make it up after sometime.
Di, I would say one thing( dont find fault with me di.😊).
Ajit wasn't at full fault(as it is not intentional) is what I would say. In general Indian Men are like that is what I fell.
when the situation goes out of control and if they couldn't solve the issue(fight) going on between his mom and wife,Then most men end up hitting their wife as she is the one who will not say anything and take it.  ( Though men hitting their wife is not done   w.r.t  me) this is what I feel.

And S Manav needs to do all he can to get Archu closer to Savita but for that this cold behavior wont work infact will create more rift and Manav thought of I will ask forgiveness only if Savita forgives Archu is worng.In fact Archu does dont come into picture here. It was Manav who said those words that "I am not ur son anymore " well for that first he needs to convince his mom that he is still her son and Archu is not the reason he has left her or something. For that he needs to go first and ask forgiveness spend time with his mom instead of loitering in his sasural and then bring Archu into picture.This way Savita will slowly change coz of her son's love. Her Manav understanding of his mom is missing.He needs to understand Savita first and then only he can bring ARchu closer. He needs to first resolve his issue with his mom and then thing about Archu and savita relationship. Relationships are not built on a day n if Manav can show savita that he is really her son and has not left her then the insecurity she is feeling over Archu will vanish automatically and then if Archu makes her move her Savita will accept. 

Umi, don't ever let anyone tell yo uthat domestic violence is a way of life ..Slapping is wrong ...Period ...

 

This content was originally posted by: Tanyaz

Umi, don't ever let anyone tell yo uthat domestic violence is a way of life ..Slapping is wrong ...Period ...

Espacially a husband slapping a wife as sweet and nice as vandita ..and then not even feeling sorry about it ..Satish also slapped Varsha bu the immediately went in shock ...here ajit left the house and Rasika was smirking ....

 

Just because a girl takes abuse , it doesn't mean she is good or sweet ...It's not good to take abuse ..No one should do it , speciall

y between husband and wife ...

And don't think I will take it wrong, yo can tell me anything  ..I will reply back as I see things according to my thinking and experience .. ...😊

Tanya i am so glad you posted this.  This is the 3rd time someone has said, "this is the way things are in India, or this is chawl life so it's ok"  and i am thinking, my god, abuse is NOT ok even if EVERYONE DOES IT.  I am not Indian but i found myself being really concerned and asking...is it true that this is the way things are in India and everyone just accepts and thinks abuse is normal.??
So....thank you thank you for putting this post up...cause ,... domestic violence and abuse EVEN IF DONE BY MOTHERS is wrong!! 

i am so mad at Ajit for doing that..😡 .i thought he acted kind of strange in the crowd, telling manav he should just explain and say more and i am wondering now if he did gamble that night or is gambling now, and is feeling guilty and stressed and taking it out on Vandu.  Poor Vandu ...she should never ever have received that slap...  😭

@ Umi, i know you weren't saying that it was OK but only that it happens...and wasn't so unusual.  but that's still not ok even if all the men do it... btw what does w.r.t. mean  🤔  😳

Edited by naava - 13 years ago

instead of slapping and leaving .ajith should have just left from there..🤓..hitting a girl like vandu wasn't good at all..👎🏼

you know Umi, we love ( both of us ) Archu and vandu but their philosophy of taking abuse is very wrong .... Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago

ok i am having a hard time deciding between Vandu and Varsha.....Vandu, i am proud of her for standing up for Manav against Rasika and  i feel really really sorry for her.....but i think my STOD vote will probably go to Varsha, because she has really started to handle her own loss with maturity and out of her own experience learned that distance between loved ones is sometimes disrespectful of the relationship..and so i was very proud of her for confronting Vaishali. 

Missed the Episode.. Looks like it was interesting after reading the WU.. Will catch the repeats

I think my vote goes to Vandita Today... She at last raised her voice against Rasika.. She should continue doing this.. Rasika Aai will not change so easily and being nice to her will not make any difference..
How can people smile/laugh when someone gets slap/hit?? So rude..😡

And and and Ajit Slapped Vandu!!!! How can he??? 😡😡😡 Vandu is a sweet and supportive wife.. I am not at all happy with him today.. He is just trying to save himself by doing this and supporting his mom indirectly..He is actually complicating things..

I somehow Feel CV's are trying to change Ajit's character again from Good to Bad.. The other day I felt he was actually tempted to play the cards.. He was trying hard to control..

Now Coming to Chawl Fight.. Savita Aai 👏👏👏 She is the only one who can take care of such people.. Manav and Archana are too sweet for them..