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Originally posted by: naava
Everyone is proud of Savita for standing up to the chawl cats and that was good......she did it for her family's honor and for manav, but she also did it because by her own admission she loves "taking on the adversary"...so ..it made her feel good that she still "had what it takes to fight a good fight - for the sake of the fight"... (& let's not forget that it was Archana who more than once took on the chawl cats in SAvita's neighborhood...defending the D's ) ....but what Savita did next was almost unforgiveable in my opinion. omg it made me mad...Naava , I will be honest .Loved the way this woman gave it to the Chawl cats and I think the real reason was becaus her child was being attacked and she fought back for him .This is not the first time , she always comes to his defence when he is attacked ..But yes, what she did later was sad .....these two mother and son ......uff what a terrible miscommunication ....In my eyes , Savita is being very childish and she always sees the other person's fault .Why cannot she see what she does to others ...But what a lucky lady to get a son like Manav .This fellow is just not giving up on her long term happiness. He si fighting her to give her a good life by bringing Archana back into their house ..Manav cannot live without his mother and that is why he is fighting her tooth and nail to get his way back into her life permanently ...
Manav approached her and thanked her and wanted to be tender ...but once again she missed a golden opportunity to restore the family....(she never misses an opportunity to miss an opportunity )... she sounded like she had come to apologize, but instead she turned everything that could have been a victory into yet another case of emotional manipulation, blackmail and sabotage. oohhh pooooooor me.......see how i love you but oh you don't love me ..you like losing people..its YOU who is taking away my love, i will stop loving just like you want... ...waaaahhh...π€’.
I am sorry but i have seen this over and over again in so many life experiences..and as a counselor and social worker, .where people who are manipulative try to get what they want with such intense emotional blackmail... and they are soo good at making people feel guilty and soo sorry for them.and i am soooo proud of manav for standing firm....i don't know how long he can hold out but i hope he keeps it up....Archu's heart is so soft she might buckle, but Manav is 200% right...and so far archu is saying...it's your decision....... i don't know what Vaishali had in mind with her "advice"...but it sounded interesting...Right now Manav desperately wants to go back to his mother ..he is really desperate ...he wants her to have a good life with archu looking after her ....Bu tthis time he wants some basic respect also for his wife , not like before ..Archana gets treated so bad from savita that any person with even this little humanity would worry about her Bu tManav's love for his mother is so much that he still wants Archana to somehow go and start taking care of that house , he strongly feels that his mother will one day see archna for her goodness.....Her illness will help her i na way .She wil lget what she wants ..Her son will immediately come to live with her .Let's hope thinsg are good for Archana too ..Keep your fingers crossed ...
i just had to let off a little steam about the scene today with Savita...it really made me π‘
On another subject....looking forward to tomorrow's epi and what Varsha will do with the information...π²
Me too , waiting to see varsha's reaction now ...I hope she tells satish ...
Originally posted by: ArManFan1Di Savita Aai very well knows her son Manav and Bahu Archana.. She knows Manav loves her a lot... She is just trying to be foolish by being stubborn.. She does not want to think of the other side that is the happiness she will get if Archana is there..
Archana is not a new person to her.. She knows what Archana is.. She had forgiven Archana long back after Sachin's death. She did this after she saw Archana's good deeds.. Now how can she blame Archana saying she will always take her children.. Unbelievable..Manav is correct and feeling bad for him.. He is trying his best to unite his family..
Savita Aai has to be little more patient and may be accept Archana just for the sake for her son's happiness. Then we all know Archana is such a sweet bahu that Savita Aai will automatically love her.. πOriginally posted by: Tanyaz
She is being stubborn and foolish ...She is very lucky to have a son who loves her so much ...that he is just not giving up on her and her happiness ....
Originally posted by: TanyazIt is pretty unbelievable why this woman just refuses to see how much her son loves this girl and how badly he wants to be happy with her .
She see it that is the main problem. she does know that archana is everything for manav. She was used having manav by herself also complete control on him. now she feels soooooooooo insecure. All her attempts to breakup arman failed. That is big big blow to her... She doesn't see change (he cares for his happiness also not only others) in her son. but she sees archana is the reason for loosing control on her son. In her mind only solution for the problem is, archana disappearing for good.
It would be much easier for Manav to say ....Ok I will live seperately and once a week will come and see my mother and we will not talk about Archana at all...However I do agree that cutting off communication lines is the worst thing he is doing .......
He tried to go everyother day. but didn't work. actually gotten worst. that's why he went against
archana's suggestion and said it is not going to work and i am not doing it, u can't make me.
Manav is using his brain these days.
What else can he do. he tried sooooo much. 1st thing he did after he came back from pune and from temple go visit his parents. Every time savita sees manav she curses archana and wish for her death. Savita stretched it until it broke. seeing savita slapping archana did it. that was too much to take it.You guys are seeing a son who is being bad to his mother and ignoring her and all that ...I see a son desperate to do anything to make his mother have a nice life ...
I don't see him being bad to his mother. As Manav said he tried his level best to make her happy
she doesn't want to be happy, no one can make her happy.
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