Posted:
13 years ago
Atleast one year or at best around a couple of years is needed to know a man or a woman with whom a person plans to spend the rest of their life! Many things go unnoticed sometimes even having an 80 years life together 😆😃 ... it depends on if you REALLY wish to notice 😃. There is a saying which I once read in a book (Russian), it said "don't just grow old, but grow matured!". Some people just spend the time, but never really live the time or try to know what happened in the time. This is because they want to remain blinded.
Many people think that in Europe the girl must have previous experience with boys and then can decide better 😆😳😆 ... but its not always true for MANY MANY girls who have a very different kind of life, which is not at all as social as other girls. Perhaps in big cities it is like that, but not in across the country 😊. But still, if a person is careful enough, knows EXACTLY what they seek for in life, they can manage to find someone right. Not only that, they need to create those values inside them too and train themselves in NOT liking just anything, but evaluate everything before they express their likeness to it 😊, then maybe they can be better in their decisions for future. To be intimate deeply with one man in a life is a very beautiful thing ... and it is not something which foolish girls do 😉. Infact, there are many girls who will go out with many men and still end up with the worse man in her life - and keep repeating this mistake.
I feel it is just that they didn't really grow that clear attitude in "what they want" ... they wanted security leaning towards more material arenas. How they loved the "high" life, how the KUDI needs the security primarily. Everything somehow ends there. Varsha was just fortunate, I don't know how she came across such a nice man. Feel sorry for Satish though ... wonder why some men are so stupid ... but maybe same thing applies here - they are not sure what they are looking for and how to look for it - and that is an ability which grows not with trials, but with values and stability, strength and focus in life. Ofcourse, in life there are experiences you can see infront, and that need not be only through multiple partners, but through others around you ... . Another very important thing that keeps these women hapless is maybe because they have lead a VERY SHELTERED LIFE ... always Provided ... no real mental stress or struggle to deal with. Economical stress and struggle is nothing when compared to emotional ones with which you yourself need to deal with and sought out - no help .
The fact that they don't know what they want is still visible on how they deal every single matter. The Fatman atleast is consistent in a direction ... but then the KUDI or VAISHALI have which direction?😕
Savita is depressed ofcourse ... really unimpressed by the baby's mother though. Clearly undeserving and reckless woman to what I can see, maybe I have seen less, but this is by far the most amazing. She never really even gives a damn does she? lol.😕. No way with no argument her importance, role or responsibilities can ever go away.
Why in this story, mother's are so cruel to the life which grows in them? 😕 ... again, if I am wrong I am sorry about it ... I couldn't help but mention it. Maybe also I have less idea what is going on exactly ... so bear with it 😆😳😊
Edited by Polki_Zofi - 13 years ago