DOTW ... marriage??? | Bade Acche Laggte Hai

sharan

@danno

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Posted: 12 years ago

Hello guys
my self sharan
i m here with DOTW

*Marriage*
shaadi ka laddo jo khaye woh bhi pachtaye aur jo na khaye woh bhi pachtaye.
hehehehhehhhe
very famous saying
so lets discuss some things here
1.love marriage or arrange?
2.what is right age of marriage?
take part
press like and comment too

thanxx
sharan😳😳

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Shamma Vanat

@shamma92

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice DOTW Sharan! hehe true...very famous saying!!

1.love marriage or arrange?

arranged marriage and love afterwards 😳

2.what is right age of marriage?

hmmm 23-24

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619490

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice DOTW !

1) i think that i like the idea of arranged marriage, i live in europe so all my friend wants to find the love of their lives and marry him but i prefer the idea of partnership more than crush

once my mom told me that the bad part is that if you know someone before wedding, then in the actual relationship you'll drag in some facts of the past in an argument for instance, and i think that she is right, when you don't know the person you can reveal him what you want, if you have done some stupid things and you won't do them again there is no need that you're soul mate know them.
btw i love the soul mate delusion too but it's awesome when two people decide to make them life match for the sake of the wedding and their future even if in the beginning they may had a totally different idea of their life partner to be.

2) for my part i think that over 20 is the minimum, there is no need to be married too soon !

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PreciousPri

@PreciousPri

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Posted: 12 years ago

Interesting topic

as 4 1st ques

well i think both r rite in their own ways n it depends on the person n situation ... sometimes love sounds rite n sometimes arranged... as u can i see im not so sure on this 1

2nd ques

i agree wiv @bavdfan... there has to be a certain level of maturity to be able to enter a relation as sacred n (hopefully) life long as marriage... so i would say mid 20s... ur getting ur career sorted n wiv that a good life partner ... wot more could u want 😛

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Ashima

@Ashima_Mishal

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice dotw well arranged marriage as i strongly believe in love after marriage and well right age is i think in mid twenties :D

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Fariha

@Forever_in_love

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Posted: 12 years ago

love marriage or arrange?

LOVE... i believe, we should know the person completely b4 marriage.. so there aren't any problems afterwards.

what is right age of marriage

hmmm.. any age.. .. if love can happen at any age.. then why not marriage.. 😕 it doesn't matter how old you are... (as long as u'r legal to get married, hehe) .. but i guess the ideal age which our society prefers is in mid 20's ..

Edited by Forever_in_love - 12 years ago

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shreya

@XoxowpdXoxo

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Posted: 12 years ago

NICE DOTW😊

1.love marriage or arrange?

ARRANGE MARRIAGE😃😃
2.what is right age of marriage?

20 - 27😊

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neeme

@neeme

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice Questions 😊

1.love marriage or arrange?

Arrange Marraige and Love After That..

2.what is right age of marriage?

i think
after 20 and Less than25...

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Purnima

@-purnima-

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice DOTW 👏👏👏 ...

1. Love or arrange 😕...

Arrange 😃😃 coz shadi ke baad pyaar ... Hote hote ho hi jata hai 😛😛 ...

2. right age... after 23-24 ... not before that 😊

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139411

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Posted: 12 years ago

1) Love or Arrange..doesn't matter, what matters is the type of person my spouse is and how well we are able to understand eachother. There is a popular saying that you should marry someone you can live with..not live without.

2) gosh am I the only one who feels that 20-25 is a very young age to be married? well personally (since I am already in my mid-twenties) I do not wish to be married till I am at least 28 or 29, it's important for me to get myself educated and financially stable in life, however I also believe that a person should get married when they mentally feel that they are mature enough to share their life with someone and take on the responsibilities of being not just a wife, but of a DIL, SIL etc.

Just my thoughts on the matter...

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