Originally posted by 100GIRL
honestly i think she ruined her chance she shown has really wanting an education but when she got a chance she blew it she didnt concentrate shows she not that dedicated i mean if i really wanted 2 do something got a chance i would make the most of it i think her wanting a education is that that she really wants it but kinda just wants it coz she has not go it it like when a kid wants a toy when it gets it play with for 2 day after that throws it!!!!!!!!!! I personally think that it the same with gopi but with edcation.
i think that not every1 should bend backwards for her 2 get an education coz of what happen with the tutor she didnt concentarted i mean the 1st day rashi didnt even 2 kalarki she was just cooking but still gopi was like oh no what going on if she heard a bit of noise from the kitchen gopi she cooking ther bound be some noise coming who actually cooks quitely i eman if something falls doesnt not mean u need 2 worry it happend n especially u should not worry because u getting ur so called wish furfilled which u took 4 granted!
sorry 2 say gopi u have not shown why u should have pepole bend over backward for u to get an education!
this my view sorry if offended any1!
2 clearstuff ever1 deservs an eduaction but some people dont get it and when those people get a chance to get educated grab it with both hand dont take it for granted like gopi did u never keep on getting chances!
I know what you are saying and in retrospect Gopi regrets what she did probably, but what she was feeling at that moment, with the noise in the kitchen is, Rashi doesn't know how to cook, and she is getting to do all my chores and how temperamental she is, what if mami gets to know, it's my responsibility and if she doesn't do it correctly, my saas will talk talk, and everyone won't even eat it, Kokila sprang the teacher on her, if the teacher came after Gopi finished cooking, in the afternoon for two hours then she could carry on with her chores, as Gopi takes her chores seriously, most married women do. Also Gopi doesn't like arguments in the house because of her and she is abused by her mami and especially when Rashi is upset, she wanted to do everything, do her chores, get educated and no-one is unhappy (Rashi, Urmila, Kokila I'm talking about). She's not selfish, she is a giving soul.