Originally posted by: T.
Well, I've noticed in general that most Far-east Asians (Chinese, Filipino, Koreans, Vietnamese, etc) send their children for piano lessons from a very young age. I dont know why that is the reason, but I have seen it more with these parents than with South Asian parents. And the neighbourhood where I live is more of a Mini-South-Asia, so that is saying something!
Most Indian parents consider arts as a waste of time as very few people get jobs in those fields. If they are not interested in music, they do not encourage their children to pursue its education either.
So, if they are to be involved, they should be also educated on the benefits of musical education for their children. For Eg. a study conducted by a newspaper (dont remember which one it was) showed that children who study music are better at academics than others on average.
Also, shy children develop a confidence in facing other people during recitals.
But, a parent should not force the child to continue learning music if he/she does not enjoy it. Try it out initially and ask the teacher about his/her progress. If the teacher thinks he/she is good/promising OR if the child simply enjoys it, just continue with the education.
exactly!!!
There are no. of things that can be done
1. Every student in the school should have access to music if he or she wants it. The school should adopt a written music curriculum the courses should be taught by qualified teachers and there should be adequate facilities for the school music program.
2.As a parent, you should check to see whether this time is spent in active pursuits such as singing and playing instruments in addition to passive listening.
3.At home, set up a special place for your child to play, and establish a regular time for playing music. Be involved: ask your child to explain what he or she is earning, and offer plenty of praise.
4.And never react negatively to your child's attempts to make music.
5.If your child takes part in private lessons make sure the instructor makes you feel welcome to observe, and make sure the lessons take place at an appropriate place and time. Watch to see how comfortable your child is with the teacher.
6.Some parents don't have a lot of musical knowledge themselves, but that's no reason to surrender such an important part of your child's upbringing to "experts". In that respect, music is no different from math, English .
Edited by dolly - 18 years ago
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