HOW IS THIS...
In LOVE :-
Aanoda kaadhal kaikkuddai pola... Pennoda kaadhal kairegai pola...
TRANSLATED :-
A girl can easily erase the pathway/trace of a guy in her life. But,
It is difficult for a guy to erase the pathway/trace of a girl in his life.
The woods were lovely dark and deep. Walking slowly beside her, in the damp mud road, was her husband whom she barely knew. He was very relaxed, happily watching a group of kids playing at a distance.Her "mehendi" was still dark and smelling fresh, reminding of the excitement and tension 2 days back. "It cant work this way mom…please stop this", she kept telling her mother till the last moment,who wouldnt listen but carry on with beautifying her.She had been crying all night and her make-up had to be patched up twice or thrice to hide her awkwardly swollen face.It was too late now.She had to get married "NOW" to the guy…
The guy whom she had seen once and talked thrice.The guy about whom she knew nothing at all but for his name and work.Everything happened in a hurry and everthing was over before she could breathe again… here was she with this guy, all alone in this hill station… how can anybody send their daughter such a long distance with a stranger??? "Hey look at that….!!!" he shouted in excitement… she shrugged and looked where his finger pointed…Bright colored balloons dotted the sky. Children were jumping in joy and he seemed to be completely absorbed into it…colors are always exciting…but not now.She was not with her friends, not with her team mates, not even with her parents. This was not a 3 day tour or team building trip.This was her life and she has been forced to start off with this person.Loneliness and discomfort with this stranger was sickening…She looked at him in wonder… does he even realize that he has married me?Does he understand that he has to love me,protect me,care for me,a new girl,a stranger, all his life?
The marriage morning started like a daylight nightmare for her.The first time in life she felt she should have fallen in love and then married somebody. some man who she would have felt more comfortable with, someone whom she could call by name and introduce to friends,someone whom she could trust. But marriage morning was obviously not the time to think all these.Her parents would never have said "no" if she had declared that she was in love.But she was not emotionally attached to anybody she met,especially guys.She was very friendly,playing,teasing, but never had second thought for any man around her.That brought the entire responsibility of looking for a groom on her parents' shoulders.Her parents had had a very bad time with this entire process.They started their groom search with unending "&" operation. The concatenation of "Horoscope matching" & "Decent family" & "Good looking" & "Good pay" & "same cast" & so on… that always gave 0 output.Now after all that 8months hunt,they were not ready to hear her "ifs" and "buts" for this 'good guy'.
She had explained to her father.She does not feel anything for this person.He is nothing more to me than any other software professional.Like list of names she sees in the chat rooms. Distant and usual…Her father asked her to talk to him and even meet him and discuss their likes and dislikes.That meeting started like the induction programme self introduction and ended like a 3 hour seminar.She was waiting to get away from that place."So did you talk with him?"."yes"."was he polite and decent"."yes"."Oh.. he got that special flavoured tri-color icecream…!!!".OK.All her family and relatives discussed…She was given the chance to "understand her life partner" and that they have understood each other "well" and she is ready for the marriage now.
All arrangements geared up and it was 24 days after her first meeting that she was getting married to her man… perfect match as everybody else described. Marriage hall was full with excited people, kids got the chance to play,ladies got the chance to wear silk sarees. The smell of rose and jasmine filled the hall.Different poses for the photographer and atrificial smiles for the videos.The moment he had tied the sacred thread was unexplainable vaccum in the head.It was over.She was his wife.Accepted by the society and law.Her proudparents were relaxed. This was their duty they had been planning to fulfill since she was born.All this crowd will fade away,leaving her to explore her new world…He pulled her hand gently to sit on the stone bench.The bench was wet and the chillness was indeed enjoyable.
"So what are you thinking about?"… That was an unexpected ball.should she reply? Should she be silent?She remembered the two hour presentation she had taken last month. Bold and confident, she kept answering all the queries with a broad smile.Now she remained silent."Do you know honey… I was not interested in this marriage too…" Oh my God… what did i hear??? did HE tell that or did i think aloud? What does he mean?didnt he like me?was he forced into this? He must have noticed the quizzical look on my face…with a gentle smile he continued…"I wanted to look for a girl myself, buy her everything, care for her, argue with her,laugh and cry with her,then get married to her… Anything otherwise would be a drama. Traditional drama and i was not for it anytime. But my love for my work and also my stress would not give me time and mind to search that girl…
When your parents talked to me 2 weeks before our marriage, about your fear of getting married,to a stranger, i could completely understand your mind. I could see myself in you and that was the moment i decided i will marry you.There was no time to prove myself to you,make you trust me,everything happened in a hurry.But there was the entire life before me, to please you,to love you, to make you trust me.This is no less than what i had dreamt,the girl i was waiting for,is you.Now tell me… will you love me???" Tears came down her cheek.Her parents had done more than their duty.They had found her the perfect guy. Thank you Mom!!! Thank you Dad!!!
His question remained unanswered yet both knew the answer….
BE DEAF TO NEGATIVITY - BEAUTIFUL MOTIVATIONAL STORY
Once upon a time
there was a bunch of tiny frogs who arranged a running competition. The goal was
to reach the top of a very high tower. A big crowd had gathered around the
tower to see the race and cheer on the contestants.
The race began…
Honestly, No one in crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the
top of the tower. crowd yelled statements such as:
"Oh, WAY too difficult!!!"
"They will NEVER make it to the top."
"Not a chance that they will succeed. The tower is too high!"
The tiny frogs began collapsing. One by one. Except for those, who in a fresh
tempo, were climbing higher and higher.
The crowd continued to yell, "It is too difficult!!! No one will make it!"
More tiny frogs got tired and gave up. But ONE continued higher and higher and
higher. This one wouldn't give up!
At the end everyone else had given up climbing the tower. Except for the one
tiny frog who, after a big effort, was the only one who reached the top! THEN
all of the other tiny frogs naturally wanted to know how this one frog managed
to do it?
A contestant asked the tiny frog how he had found the strength to succeed and
reach the goal? It turned out. That the winner was DEAF!!!
Moral of the Story
Never listen to other people's tendencies to be
negative or pessimistic. because they take your most wonderful dreams and
wishes away from you — the ones you have in your heart!
Always think of the power words have. Because
everything you hear and read will affect your actions! Therefore, ALWAYS BE
POSITIVE!
Be DEAF when people tell YOU that you cannot
fulfill your dreams! Always think: God and I can do this!
Rubber sheet that activate handphones / cellphones
Cellphone-ai iyakkum rubber sheet
Cellphone-ai charge seithaalthaan thodarnthu pesa mudiyum. Aanal ippothu India-vil irukkum minveddaal cellphone-ai mulumaiyaaga charge seivathu kooda mudiyaatha onraagave ullathu.
Itharku theervu kaanum vithaththil onrai kandupidiththullaargal vinyaanigal. Athan moolam cellphone-ukku thevaiyaana min sakthiyai peralaam. Paarpatharku athu oru saathaarana rubber sheet polave irukkum. Antha melliya rubber sheet cellphone-ukku thevaiyaana minsaarathai urpaththi seithu kodukkum.
Cellphone-gal maddum allaamal mattra portable electronic karuvigalum minsaaram pera intha rubber sheet-ai payanpaduththi kollalaam Antha rubber sheet-ai namathu udalil oddi kondaal pothum. Nadappathu, suvaasippathu ponra saathaarana udal iyakkanggalaal intha rubber sheet thanakkul minsakthiyai urpaththi seithu athai cellphone ponra karuvigalukku valanggum.
Silicon-aal seiyappadda intha rubber sheet-in mel nunukkamaana ceramic nano ribbon-gal poruththappaddullana. Udal asaivugalaal undaagum sakthiyai intha rubber sheet min sakthiyaaga maattri kollum. Oruvar iintha sheet-ai thanathu shoe-vil oddikondu odinaalo, nadanthaalo antha rubber sheet-il minsaaram uruvaakkappaddu cellphone-galukku thevaiyaana minsaaram kidaithuvidum. Maarbin meethu vaithukkondu saathaaranamaaga suvaasiththaal kooda intha rubber sheet misaaraththai thayaarithu vidum. Udal asaivugalinaal undaagum sakthiyil 80 sathaviitha sakthiyai intha rubber sheet minsaaramaaga maattri kollum thiran kondathu.
Micro surgical karuvigalillum kooda ithai payanpadutha laamaa enbathu kurithu vinyaanigal aayvu seithu varugiraargal. Intha puthu vagaiyaana sheet-ai Princeton Palgalaikkalaga vinyaanigal kanduppidithullanar. Minsaarathai uruvaakka maattraaga vanthirukkum iththagaiya thayaarippugalukku makkal maththiyil nalla varaverpu kidaithu varugirathu.
Nokkam
"Vanakkam... Unggal car virpanaikku iruppathaaga paper-il vilambaram..."
"Aamaam. Car-ai paarthinggalaa?"
"Vaasalil nikkuthe, athuvaa?"
"Aamaam."
"Appadiyaanaal, innum virpanai aagalaiyaa?"
"Illai, yen kekkuriingge?"
"Ungga car shed kaaliyaaga irunthathai paarthom. Athanaale vaasalle nikkira car vera yaaruthonnu nenachom..."
"Ippathaan veliye poyiddu vanthen. Marubadi veliye poganum. Athaan, car veliye nikkuthu..."
"Ithuvaraikkum niraiya per vanthu ungga car-ai paarthuddu poyiruppaanggale...?"
"Um. Yeleddu per vanthaangga..."
"Yethaavathu mudivu aagiyirukkaa?"
Athai pattri unggalukku enna? Unggalaale evvalavu kodukka mudiyum?"
"Athille... Athaavathu... car-ai ethukkaage virkuriingganu therinchukkalaamaa...?"
"Ithu unggalukku sambantham illaatha vishayam!"
"Thappaa ninaikka vendaam... Intha car-ai vithuddu neengga vera car vaangga poringgalaanu therinchukka virumburom..."
"Niingga en car-ai vaangga vanthirukkiinggalaa, allathu vera car-ai enkidda virka vanthirukkiinggalaa?"
"Athaavathu saar...car-ai vitrathukku appuram ungga car shed kaaliyaagathaane irukkapoguthu! Athai enggalukku vaadagaikku kodutthiingganaa, angge naangga kudi vanthuduvom. Athukaagathaan..."
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