Thanks for the superfast and colourful update Madhaviben. Irritating and dragging episode started with DJ...anger... What a golden words madhaviben.. what you said is apt and 100% correct.In most cases the mother-in-law / daughter-in-law relationship is expected to be filled with thorny tensions. Folk sayings and jokes reflect the anticipated hostility between a daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law.
For example, a saying from Tunisia, North African states, "I wish my daughter: the sun of the winter, I wish my daughter-in-law: the sun of the summer." (The winter sun warms the body and in contrast, the summer's is uncomfortably hot.)
My best advice to any parent of a married child that may be reading this is "Just go SLOW"...close your eyes and think back to when you were the daughter/son in law. Your children love you..and they love their spouses, but let them set the rules...we had our time...now this is theirs!!"
Waiting for the next episode.