~SSK 12th March 2012 WU~

Such a boring episode...no talk of anything except food, food and food and lack of food and hungry people !!!

@hooked…

@Sheenug - Am sorry about your experience. This was not done.

Hey sorry to hear about your experencies but what mathaji is doing with simar and roli is really wrong thats what i feel. I was just wondering that why is that ramu kaka in the house for then if roli and simar have to do all the cooking, washing of vessels etc. I cant understand that inspite of having a servant the bahus have to do all the cleaning and cooking in the house and they dont even get time with their husbands except when they go to bed. What nonsense is this. Cant ramu kaka wash the vessels and do the cleaning and dusting of the house and the cooking or he is just being paid without doing anything. And secondly when simar and roli were not married in this house i think uma and pari were the ones who used to do everything and suddenly now they cant manage things, dont tell me that now they even forgot to cook. And what is that chachi doing in the house, cant she cook. She is only shown when she needs to criticise roli or simar. Imagine even on a occasion simar and roli have to be 24/7 in the kitchen slogging and the others enjoy. Cvs pls show some sense in the show, we viewers are not dumb to believe all this.

Originally posted by: sheenug

@hooked'

Some people are like that only'.even in this century it happens'.

In fact it happened to me last year'.my husband's aunt called me to her place to celebrate her son's (my brother in law's) birthday. I was happy as my brother in law is a little kid of 9-10 year old only and very cute. When my husband's aunt called me for extra help in cooking to her place'i was quite excited about it. But when i reached there she made me cook 5-6 main course dishes with snacks and sweet dish and that too for 30-40 people. She never helped me in the kitchen and being a new daughter in law 'i cant even utter a word. i was glad that my husband helped me in frying bhatura's and samosa's otherwise i would have never completed that food on time. I did my job happily but that time also i thought that she didn't help me in anything. I just did it as i wanted to build a good relationship with her and for my husband's sake as he was happy.

Second time she called me again to stay with her in my holidays. I thought that she is calling me out of love for daughter in law. I was supposed to stay there for at least 10-15 days. She was ok when my husband was there but when he went her attitude changed towards me. She actually called me for baby sitting as here in the U.S baby sitting is expensive and not out of love for daughter in law. I came to know about this thing as due to some urgent work in college i had to leave early from her place. At first she didn't allow me to go and when i insisted she said that i can go but i have to come back in a day as i don't have any baby sitter for all these days when ur supposed to stay here. When i was about to leave her place, last day she said that her sister is coming so she wants me to cook rajma, chole-bhature, matar paneer for 10-15 people, which i did, without even uttering the word. But i was initially hurt.

 I would be more than happy to help her if she would have told me directly that she needs help but she tricked me for babysitting and cooking. 

Edited by niharika_n - 12 years ago

Thanks to all for supporting me….

i know most of the girls cook in their in-laws house completely. But in my case i felt bad because she compared me with her baby sitter. Also tricked me for her kitty party that her sister is coming but later she said that her sister didn't came so she arranged kitty party with that food. Also my husband later on told me that she is not in talking terms to her sister.  Edited by sheenug - 12 years ago