DOTW : Man's Dilemma

Hello guys!!

I am supposed to conduct the DOTW!! Thank you FIVR for the timely pm ,😆 really sorry, for the delay i just lost my whole post due to server timed out error . 🤢

 ok here goes:

 There comes a time in every man's life when.😕.. He is caught in turmoil between a 😡wife and the rest of 😡family! (I won't say that between his family and wife as technically family includes wife also 😉)

 this is where my thoughts for the DOTW stem from :

 Special reference to BALH: featuring our very own raya 👏 and creaky chair boy 🥱!

 Kartick : he is stating the point from the outside point of view, he feels what has happened is sad but at the same time  doesn't understand the blame being put on another family member who was also effected? had it been another designer, would the sharmas have reacted the same?? His question to sudir was very apt: where does the man go?

 RAYA: Ram and priya are in a state of bliss😳😍 , however the snoopers have gotten the whiff of the blossoming romance ❤️and are hot on tria😲l, pretty soon there will be a situation poised such that golu will have to choose between guriya and choti!! 😕

in wake of the current ( creaking chair) and impending( raya) this is my DOTW - the man's dilemma!!  what should be the best course of action? Is there any mid way that can be met?  

Please join in guys! 😆

 Signing of with my fav line from the Frasier song:

 What should a body do!!  leo4ever has left the room 😎

 

Edited by leo4ever - 12 years ago

Really a dilemma .he cannot favourite either wife or sis. Actually in this case who is right doesn't arise because whatever he does he is still going to face lot of flak. It's like knife falling on a banana leaf or a banana leaf falling on the knife. It's the leaf which gets cut.

yes, unfortunately that is true, but i was wondering will standing by the truth even be possible, for instance, even if you know that your mom is wrong and is lieing, however if you bring it out in the open it might cause shame to your mom and at the same time you might fear that oyur wife starts to disrespct ur mom, what will u do, then?

That's true. Neither Ayesha nor Natasha is gonna lose anything, Its only Karthik who is ought to lose something or the other for no mistake of his. I think Ram will be in a same situation but I think somehow Priya will not give him an ultimatum to choose between family and wife. That would make it tougher for the man in question.

Ram' s and Karthiks situations are different according to me. In Karthiks case ,both nutz and Ayesha will never compromise and would want Karthiks to side with them . So both will ask him to choose . Nutz has already given an ultimatum that she is not going to do any sacrifice for the sake of his parents and her respect is important to her if not to him. But in the case of Ram, Priya will not put him in that situation. She will only support him.she will only think that his respect is her respect.even when Ram showed the divorce papers and asked her to sign,she did not question him. She loves him and trusts him enough to not question him. Even if he is wrong , Priya is matured enough to understand that it may be his majboori .and Ram loves,trusts and respects  her enough  to not put her in that kind of a situation. 

Edited by SriB - 12 years ago

But in the case of Ram, Priya will not put him in that situation. She will only support him.she will only think that his respect is her respect.even when Ram showed the divorce papers and asked her to sign,she did not question him. She loves him and trusts him enough to not question him. Even if he is wrong , Priya is matured enough to understand that it may be his majboori .and Ram loves,trusts and respects  her enough  to not put her in that kind of a situation. 

Awesome DOTW Zehra.. You just stole my next post : A tale of two sisters😃 I was wondering the same thing. Ram and Karthik at the end of the day are gonna be stuck in between their wife and family. however Nutz may behave with Karthik's family, I don't think her love for Karthik is fake. She loves him a whole lot which showed in her adjusting at the Sharma's till the abortion issue came up. On the other hand, Ram and Priya didn't have a great relationship to begin with and finally found love. Their families have always been their strength but the love for their respective half is gonna be the cause for their dilemma. If Karthik, throws Nutz out, then Ayesha is gonna be happy. If Ram throws Priya out, Nih is gonna be happy. But how will the men work out a strategy that ends up making most of them happy?! I think the key lies in their respective wives. Unless Nutz lets her love for Karthik over rule and realize her life at KM is nothing, nobody can force her to get back to sharma's.. And here Priya should remain neutral instead of taking her family side and work out with Ram.