I am trying to be more rational here in doing a character analysis between Mallu and Nidhi, trying to delve into their psyche. Irrespective of the present situation, who will be a better for Ashu?
1. Malllu is a classy female because she works hard to project her self that way...her clothes, her jewelery are all unique. Wheres Nidhi is a natural beauty who has in-built sophistication. We saw this in the dinner epi where Nidhi was charming without trying too hard and Mallu had to work on that sophisticated image, like giving those CDs.
2. Mallu is a pompous prick with a bloated ego who always wants others around her to give her attention. If any other woman dares to do better she is offended and becomes her instant enemy. This happened when Nidhi joined KGH and Ashu praised her talents. From then on Mallu has always tried to belittle Nidhi. Mallu is shallow and narrow-minded but Nidhi is warm, generous, innocent and honest.
3. Mallu is a perfectionist that borders on being obsessive and psychotic. We have seen her perfect house, perfect cooking skills, etc. Mallu loves Ashu but maybe feels that Ashu and her make a perfect couple, and wants this to become a reality. Nidhi is the opposite, she is a mess most of the times and is not apologetic about it.
4. By nature Mallu is hard-hearted, not emotional. She is a good doctor but cannot empathize with her patients. She can even stoop to using her patients for her selfish needs. Even at his hardstone best Ashu was kind and understanding with his patients. This human connection is very much there in Nidhi.
5. Mallu connects with the hardstone Ashu but that is only his facade. We have seen that underneath he is a big softie, a warm and generous person. Mallu has seen him transforming into the hardstone person but was unable to stop him from becoming one or even heal his wounds, but Nidhi did it. With Nidhi Ashu can grow as a human being but not with Mallu.
6. Mallu is extremely possessive of Ashu. She has problems when Ashu-Armaan spend time together. When she was in hospital she faked unconsciousness when Ashu mentioned going out with Armaan (she did not know Nidhi would be there). Will this attitude help Ashu's career?
7. She is controlling and bosses over Ashu. If he does not listen he is shouted at like a school boy. With Nidhi all her 'zidd' is playful. If Ashu seriously objects Nidhi reluctantly agrees. She shows her disappointment but understands and does not get angry at him.
8. Most important Nidhi makes Ashu laugh and open up. With Mallu most of the time he closes up. He discusses Nidhi with her but nothing else. With Nidhi he can talk about anything.
Basically, both Ashu and Nidhi are very giving by nature. They understand each other and want to make each other happy which will make that a harmonious union. But Mallu is a possessive shrew who may want Ashu to dance to her tunes all the time and is better as a friend/ colleague.
Edited by aardhan - 12 years ago
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