TOI: Just divorced wanna enjoy-Shweta

Isnt it alimony of sorts,given the impression that both of your properties were bought from your earnings 

Yeah,people say that its kind of alimony only,but then legally he had an equal right over the properties as it was in our joint names.Its true that both the houses were bought from my earnings as he never earned any money.While I worked hard to make money,he was the one who would go around buying properties from my earnings,so he insisted on registering them in our joint names (to technically become the co-owner ).And he had his way.During the divorce proceedings,we made him two offers,either take a house,which would be coowned by our daughter Palak,or to take the sole ownership rights of a house,and stay away from Palak;he immediately lapped up the latter one.He wanted to take one house to go away from our lives.And I bought peace for my daughter and myself at this cost.

Whats your daughters reaction to your divorce Shes also been troubled a lot because of your marital disturbances... 

Palak,who has just turned 12 on eighth of this month,has witnessed atrocities doled out to me by her father;he has beaten me up and harassed me many times in front of her.But,she always had a hope that her father loved her as she would watch Raja on television,making all the false claims about me not letting him meet his daughter and how much he loved her.Now when Raja has proved that all that was humbug by preferring a property over his daughter,Palak will have to come to terms with this sad reality.

As youve faced a lot of domestic violence,you may be having an opinion about Gulabi Gang a group of women under the commandership of Sampat Pal which has now taken law in its own hands to punish oppressive men carrying out domestic violence. 

If our police (or law) can bail out the oppressed women from their torturous plight,then I dont support these Gulabi Gangs at all.But,I think fear factor of the Gulabi Gang can serve as a strong deterrent to the harassing husbands of many women,who,despite being physically assaulted by their husbands,dont want to take the matter to police or courts,because of which they keep on lumping their misery.
( L a u g h s ) Also,earlier if I was aware of their existence,I would have also approached them and requested,Gulabi Gang,please come to my rescue and make him (Raja) gulabi! 

You are planning to tie the knot with your love Abhinav Kohli Any caution you wish to exercise this time 

When I got married to Raja in 1999,I was 19;I was too young to understand that he was not the right guy for me.Your husband should be able to respect you;he cannot be financially dependent on his wife.I just thought you only need to like a person to marry him,whichs quite nave.My mother opposed Raja as my choice,but I didnt listen to her.I got introduced to Raja through Rachna didi (Rajas cousin sister ),and within three months,I found myself married to this guy.I should have waited for some more years to take a call on marriage.And now I think Im old enough to decide upon a good life partner (laughs).I see a good partner in Abhinav,but I need to take some time as Im just out of a harrowing marriage.Im just divorced and wish to enjoy my single status.And even he is not in hurry.