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This is not a justification or an excuse. This is the character's actual pov, which only some people see&consider. He is judged&mocked mercilessly, w/o anyone ever stepping into his shoes,&understanding him.
It is so easy to pass remarks. So easy to ignore things the show has made clear about the character,&point out flaws & exaggerate& even fib about him.
I'm not undermining any other character here, I'm not bashing any character here. I am just stating rishis pov, that us viewers have received from the creatives.
We all know rishi loved indira. He only married Swetha bc of Indira's insistence/ promise.
Rishi NEVER forced shwetha to marry him, made it clear to her since day 1 that he cannot love anyone like indira, that he can't move on. Before shwetha became a surrogate mother, he never used her, he never hid any truth from her. On the contrary, he made it crystal clear that she can't expect any false promises or true love from him for this. He was honest, he didnt lie or make any false promises to her.
His love for indira is the soulmate, once in a lifetime forever kind love! He made it clear always that no one can take his indira's place in his heart, & Swetha could always decide if she wanted to stay at sn or not. Swetha loved rishi, doesn't mean that he has to love her back. What type of an unreasonable & crazy expectation is that?! If someone loves you, that means you have to love them back! Just because their your friend, & they married you despite knowing that you don't love them back. Just bc they were the surrogate parent to your child, despite hearing the whole truth from you, and knowing as an adult & doctor, what they were doing. So while this friend may be considered so saintly, for doing so much for their friend who they love. That does not mean we can completely ignore Rishi's pov&say he's so irresponsible or careless or whatever else malicious things that have been said. Just because he couldnt make himself love shwetha in that way, that makes him selfish lol?! That makes him irresponsible, LOL, wow. He's not human, he has to conform to whatever anyone else wants, he has no feelings of his own. Just bc his wife is dead, that means he has to bam get over it & if yrs later he can't, he truly can't love shwetha, that gives the audience the right to bash him. Wow he's bashed for being human, for having emotions. And shwetha is put on a pedestal for sticking to her self inflicted & seld chosen miserable life, she is considered great for not accepting reality, for not leaving a path of unhappiness, & for most of all refusing to accept the truth since day one- that Rishi does not love her & can't feel for her in the sams way! After his wife's death, it's normal to be attached extremely to the child or being detached on the surface. This is a complete normal psychological reaction. Yet even then so much rishi bashing, when the Cv's actually showed something true & normal.
some say he's selfish for not loving shwetha back that she sacrificed so much for him. Yes she did, but did rishi force her ever?! Did he threat or hold her at gunpoint and make her give up her life & stay at sn. Did he make her do anything. The answer is No! Actually quite opposite. He told her the truth, and she knew what she was getting into since the first step. She knew rishi never loved her, she knew he told her that she's just. Friend, he doesn't feel for her like that. She's an adult who was in her senses, when she got into all this.
Rishi doesn't owe her or anyone, anything! Swetha is the one losing her self respect by staying in sn. Love is not about staying with Someone who you know doesn't love you, about showing off a relationship that your aware is not a real relationship. So no rishi is not horrible at all for not loving shwetha while being married to her. Not at all. Shwetha is the one who loves him, this she should understand&it's high time she gets that, rishi doesn't love her, and she's not in a real relationship. She is losing her self respect & causing more self harm by staying in a one sided marriage. She should realize that she deserves someone who will love her, and she should leave sn & Atleast fix her sacrificing & self inflicted misery now, she still can turn her life around by leaving.
Calling rishi names for not loving shwetha is just so low. Its really something- that ppl think he's obligated to love her just bc he married her. it was a circumstantial marriage,& shwetha was fully aware of it. She was not cheated! She's unhappy bc rishi doesn't love her, that's normal. But it's been yrs, It's high time she gets that she needs to move on. Shwetha staying in a life of self inflicted misery, is nothing admirable or something to be glorified. She is solely responsible for her unhappy life, she brought it upon herself, & she also refuses to leave when she can!
NOTE- I'm not bashing any character. Please do not bash anyone in your comments, use a character's proper name & make sure you do not break if rules/forum rules here.
It is so easy to pass remarks. So easy to ignore things the show has made clear about the character,&point out flaws & exaggerate& even fib about him.
I'm not undermining any other character here, I'm not bashing any character here. I am just stating rishis pov, that us viewers have received from the creatives.
We all know rishi loved indira. He only married Swetha bc of Indira's insistence/ promise.
Rishi NEVER forced shwetha to marry him, made it clear to her since day 1 that he cannot love anyone like indira, that he can't move on. Before shwetha became a surrogate mother, he never used her, he never hid any truth from her. On the contrary, he made it crystal clear that she can't expect any false promises or true love from him for this. He was honest, he didnt lie or make any false promises to her.
His love for indira is the soulmate, once in a lifetime forever kind love! He made it clear always that no one can take his indira's place in his heart, & Swetha could always decide if she wanted to stay at sn or not. Swetha loved rishi, doesn't mean that he has to love her back. What type of an unreasonable & crazy expectation is that?! If someone loves you, that means you have to love them back! Just because their your friend, & they married you despite knowing that you don't love them back. Just bc they were the surrogate parent to your child, despite hearing the whole truth from you, and knowing as an adult & doctor, what they were doing. So while this friend may be considered so saintly, for doing so much for their friend who they love. That does not mean we can completely ignore Rishi's pov&say he's so irresponsible or careless or whatever else malicious things that have been said. Just because he couldnt make himself love shwetha in that way, that makes him selfish lol?! That makes him irresponsible, LOL, wow. He's not human, he has to conform to whatever anyone else wants, he has no feelings of his own. Just bc his wife is dead, that means he has to bam get over it & if yrs later he can't, he truly can't love shwetha, that gives the audience the right to bash him. Wow he's bashed for being human, for having emotions. And shwetha is put on a pedestal for sticking to her self inflicted & seld chosen miserable life, she is considered great for not accepting reality, for not leaving a path of unhappiness, & for most of all refusing to accept the truth since day one- that Rishi does not love her & can't feel for her in the sams way! After his wife's death, it's normal to be attached extremely to the child or being detached on the surface. This is a complete normal psychological reaction. Yet even then so much rishi bashing, when the Cv's actually showed something true & normal.
some say he's selfish for not loving shwetha back that she sacrificed so much for him. Yes she did, but did rishi force her ever?! Did he threat or hold her at gunpoint and make her give up her life & stay at sn. Did he make her do anything. The answer is No! Actually quite opposite. He told her the truth, and she knew what she was getting into since the first step. She knew rishi never loved her, she knew he told her that she's just. Friend, he doesn't feel for her like that. She's an adult who was in her senses, when she got into all this.
Rishi doesn't owe her or anyone, anything! Swetha is the one losing her self respect by staying in sn. Love is not about staying with Someone who you know doesn't love you, about showing off a relationship that your aware is not a real relationship. So no rishi is not horrible at all for not loving shwetha while being married to her. Not at all. Shwetha is the one who loves him, this she should understand&it's high time she gets that, rishi doesn't love her, and she's not in a real relationship. She is losing her self respect & causing more self harm by staying in a one sided marriage. She should realize that she deserves someone who will love her, and she should leave sn & Atleast fix her sacrificing & self inflicted misery now, she still can turn her life around by leaving.
Calling rishi names for not loving shwetha is just so low. Its really something- that ppl think he's obligated to love her just bc he married her. it was a circumstantial marriage,& shwetha was fully aware of it. She was not cheated! She's unhappy bc rishi doesn't love her, that's normal. But it's been yrs, It's high time she gets that she needs to move on. Shwetha staying in a life of self inflicted misery, is nothing admirable or something to be glorified. She is solely responsible for her unhappy life, she brought it upon herself, & she also refuses to leave when she can!
NOTE- I'm not bashing any character. Please do not bash anyone in your comments, use a character's proper name & make sure you do not break if rules/forum rules here.
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