Thy both used 2 care wht the other felt.Nw no more

I still think they care for each other ...a lot more than what normal siblings do ...This is why they are still stuck with each other ...others would have walked away a long time ago ...When Dean is trying to get past his dissapointments ...Sam is trying to understand what causes his brother to go a 180 degree turn and love monsters now ...see his problem is not Benny ...His problem is that his damn brother always keeps secrets ...He has told him thousands and thousands of time to not lie to him ...not hide things from me ...Dean promises everytime and breaks ...he comes back and has all the time to kick him but no time to say that he brought a vampire friend along ...no time to explain that whatever shit Sam is received all his life for trusting monsters no longer holds importance because Dean himself has started trusting one ...even though he finally knows that every time Sam trusted someone they ended up breaking that trust and hurting innocent lives ...Sure Sam will be angry ...This is not Dean he knows ...and he doesn't like it ...and if can't do it ...then he will end up doing what dean does...It's care ...it;s hidden but it's still care ...Oh and maybe a bit of jealousy on being compared to a so called brother he met a year back who happens to be more of a brother than Sam ever was ...I m happy that he already didn't went off to chop Benny 's head ... :p  You don't ask what makes the other person a better brother than u r ...u just get pissed 😆 I know I would have ...no matter how bad I m ...I m still his sister and not anyone else 

Again didn't Dean said on Rufus's grave that he wants clean slate ...all past mistakes forgiven no matter what they were...wasn't Sam happy and finally relieved of all guilts after that particular epi ...and why was it ?? Because Dean finally says that ...thats when all his guilts go and then he brings them back all of a sudden out of nowhere and says Sam betrayed him at every point ...if u keep bringing the past and shove it in his face when he finally thought u have forgiven him ...that hurts ...thats like one more lie ... The problem is not Benny ...The problem is Sam doesn't have anything else to vent his anger on ...and he really needs something at this point of time to direct his anger on ...because as he says it he has a lot of anger in him ...a lot more than what Dean has ...

I had problem with Amelia's flashbacks ...I don't like the character much ...she is pretty annoying sorts ...But I guess she is the only way of knowing what went through Sam this past year ...and all his flashbacks are related to Dean in a way ...which is nice to see that he keeps on thinking about his loss when Amelia talks about hers...finally he has someone to talk about his brother ...and also I think it' bugging Sam at the moment that he left Amelia just like her husband ...and she alone one more time ...and he knows what it likes to be that way ...She was there when he needed someone and now he is not ...I loved the last flashback when Sam finally relieved that he ran away 

This is the Sam who has gone through Mystery Spot ...This is the sam who has spend 150 years in Hell ...he begged Gabriel to bring his brother back even though gabriel said it's a bad idea...He tolerated all kinds of hallucinations quietly because he didnt want Dean to worry ...there was a point where he couldn't differentiate between reality and fake ...he nearly shot Dean thinking he is not real ...and those memories won't go away easily ...When Dean dissapeared again leaving him completely alone ...Thats it ...he doesn't have anyone to lead his life anymore ...and he doesn't know how to function on his own...He never did ...so he ran hoping and praying something will happen and things will go back to normal ...sometimes people break ... they break when the most important thing in their life dissappears ...

I know Dean is mad ...I completely agree that I would have been completely shattered if I heard that my family never looked for me when I went away ...but Sam has a side too that he doesn't know ...and Sam can't explain that I guess ...that he freaked out ...the most dumbest accusation though was Sam being soulless and not telling him ...Sam himself didn't knew he is soullless how on earth is he suppose to tell him ...This is as good as saying Sam didn't look for him when he was in purgatory ...He didn't know ...even the audience didn't know Dean will be in purgatory of all place before he actually went there ...humans don't go to purgatory ...

Sam also did ask about Purgatory ...thats almost the first thing he did when they were in the motel ...when Dean wanted to find Kevin instead...he tried to understand his situation ...He also pointed out that Dean has massively changed and is constantly on the edge now ...but there is also a thing that Dean is stubborn and he never listens so obviously he can't do much here other than talk and point out the changes and he does that ... and we all know how Dean never gives a straight answer to these questions ...he didn't even properly said whether Cas is dead or alive he just went on to say that I have seen enough ...Sam can't push him after a point ...he can only hope that he will get answers in bits and pieces ...thats how I see him working his way through 

I remember how Bobby used to bring Dean out his stubborness and drill it into his head that when it comes to family it's always a mess ...and thats how it's suppose to be ...they can be the best but they can also be the worst at times...Dean needs a reminder in that ...and Sam needs to open up more ...really drive Dean through his one year and show him how he was ...or else Dean will never get that he didn't abandon him ...He just didn't know what to do ...Because it was always Dean who told him what to do to begin with ...

P.S: after all my rant can I say I m totally in love with this new storyline and loved the last episode the best ...it was damn exciting and I love angry Dean 😳..and brothers fighting and bring out those hidden emotins like nuthn else can ...thats my favourite 

Coming to Dean and Sam, I'm more disappointed with Sam than I'm with Dean. The problem with these two no is they have stopped connecting. Earlier on, there were instances when something caused them to vent out their anger and they would atleast talk whenever they felt like was the right time. Now, both are just not ready to open, explain and talk. They're just busy shoving their short comings to each other's face and digging up the past. 

Though Dean has crossed the edge and he's less patient and understanding than before, I do get where he's coming from. A year in monster's den, he comes back only to find out the only family he had didn't look for him. Just gave up and that for a girl. Seriously, how bad would that hurt! It would. 

Also, I don't see Sam helping him in any way, he just making it worse. What explanation he has to offer? A girl excuse? Her name? How he got what he never had before. Is that really enough for Dean to move on? Honestly, I think not. 

On the other hand Dean, he just pushing it too far. He has to let Sam know what happened in Purgatory, how exactly did Benny become a brother to him. The fact that Dean still keeps secrets from him will hurt Sam as much Sam giving up Dean for a girl would hurt Dean. They both have to keep their hot heads calm and have a talk. 

The reason I said I'm more disappointed with Sam is, I can't see where he's coming from like I can for Dean. Understood, Sam literally had no one. He was truly all alone. Everything justified. But how can him being with Amelia justify his lack of concern for his brother? Had they just showed that Sam tried, tried something atleast and then gave up, I wouldn't have been forced to think this way. 

They have always seen to it that they back each other up. Never give up on each other. As far as my memory goes, I don't remember Dean giving up on Sam ever, as in leaving him to die. And Sam now, I don't really know. We know what things they have done for each other, what sacrifices they made and everything. But things change, people change. 

Though the brother dynamics seem to have changed for now, I know in the end these two will come back stronger. Their bond will be more stronger and deeper than ever before! That's what we have seen from season 1, havent we? 😳 They're bothers and no matter how they go, THAT is never going to change.

On Sam-Amelia, I don't get them. I will probably need more before I have anything on them. For now I'd say I don't like Amelia's character much.

First of all amazing post dolly and loved Southern comfort.

Yeah its right they have changed a lot in 8 years and i agree with the changes here because watever they went through together its bound to change them.

again i agree they both are beahving like jerks right now and i agree with all the above points you mentioned but i think they are reacting in a way any human would react if put in their situations. Hell any other may not even sustain.

Right now both are feeling betrayed and turned down and are running so high on their anger and pissing competiton that they barely have time to take their headss out of their asses but thats what exactly brothers do !!!

 

They both are right in their respective positions. Dean has scarificed everything since he was 4 just to protect sam and then when he was stuck in the purgatory, he expected sam to be his protector for once and get him out of the shit and when he came top side only to find out that his brother didnt even try to find out whether he was alive or not had him shattered and it was bound to leave its mark.

 

Sam on the other hand, man i understand his condition. The way he has lost everything and everyone, there is no wonder you go hopeless sooner or later and in a way he is right at being pissed at dean coz for the fact dean gave him hell when ruby used him. He kept secrets from dean and boy was dean pissed at that time !!!! and now dean is doing the same. Being a hypocrite.

 

But i feel that they fight because they are still very close and when you are that close to a person that you know him inside out and when that person does not do what you expect you feel betrayed and thats what they are going through right now. Its human psychology.

I dont know i still feel that behind all this anger there is still taht part of SAM and DEAN that can care to hella nd back for each other. Because they are BROTHERS. I'd say even now if they are put in a tight situation they would do anything to keep each other alive and human and thats what real care is, pissed or not.   

 

And i dont know why i just remember bobby's line that Family is there to make you feel miserable thats why they are family😊 and i know this is Sam and Dean we are talking about and soon they will be back as they always do because at the end of the day each other is all tehy have got and no matter how pissed at each other they are or how betrayed right now they feel but they are Brothers and will always remain. Everything takes time to heal and this would to.

Atleast i have learnt one thing from SPN and its Never to lose hope😊 and i would never leave hope on Sam and Dean being the dynamic duo again because tehy are not capable of being pissed at each other for long 😆  😆  😆  😆

I mean come on If teh damn APOCALYPSE couldnt break their bond what the hell can PURGATORY do ????? 😆  😆  😆

 

PS: i dont know what i  wanted to say and what the hell have i written 😆