DOTW : Envy Over Past

--Discussion Of The Week--

Prashanth during the Diwali special episode made a statement , 'A lady can never share her husband , be it with his dead wife too.'

How far is it true? Can a woman really be jealous of her husband's ex despite knowing the fact that it is the past & will never come back. Is it ok for a wife to ask her husband to stop loving or remembering his dear dead wife? Do people really move on?

This is the discussion of the week , Envying the past v/s digging the past.

Edited by Priyasi - 11 years ago

One may never forget one's past, however one may choose not to dwell on it. You choose how the past affects your present. The wise choose to learn from the past experiences and live in the present.

I guess the past always casts a shadow on the present . 

I believe.. moving on and forgetting your past are 2 different things...

I think even after remembering your past and cherishing it(if it's good), you can move on in life and start a fresh journey...

I feel every journey has its own beauty and lessons and so I don't think one can actually forget any journey but yea, one can definitely move on...

Regarding the show,
Well, I certainly believe that the first love cannot be forgotten but one can definitely move on from it and especially if its outcome is disastrous and saddening!

i feel , it's better not to mingle with past
it gives unnecessary pain 

There is nothng bad in thinking about past...
Single Valued Point for Past,Present or Future is "Whatever haappend good save it in our memory!!!Whatever happened made u cry n fel bad...learn lesson from it n Move on!!!"
So thinking about the dead Partner is not a Crime or there is no use in the word Jealousy!!!!

moving on and forgetting your past

It is not wrong if a person chooses to stay in his past as long as it doesn't affect his present...what stays with us are the memories, staying with them can never complicate one's life...I was totally with Yash when he was lost in his world, when he never gave Aarti a fraction to enter his teritory...Aarti too understood and accepted it!...

Past is passed...You can't change it...It can't come now...so there is no threat whatsoever of "it" coming in the way of your "present state of being!" - Unless you allow it to - by thinking about it!