First of all, deep condolences for the poor girl. I am a guy and I can't even remotely imagine what she went through. My heart goes out to her. And those f**king pigs. 😡 Even animals don't commit such heinous acts. Those 🤬 should have their genitals cut and raped so that they get an idea of what they have done. 😡
As to the role of parvarrish or upbringing in this, it's very complicated. Mind is a very complex system. And there is so much stimuli that we receive everyday. Some people are born evil. Some have sick mind, because I don't think any sane person will do a thing like this. Some have dominance issue, some sadist. It's sickening to think that some people can enjoy such acts.
These crimes happen everywhere, but such rampancy in India has some root issues. That's why i have said numerous times, India needs a great mentality change and that too soon. Considering girls as objects or property is very degrading. People still preferring son and thinking girls as of something less. And then people blaming girls for the act. They are the victim FFS. Don't wear western clothes, don't party, don't go out at night, these are the things parents teach. Which makes the kids think as if it's the girl's fault if she doesn't do these things and something happens to her. I mean a woman should be able to walk with no clothes on at midnight if that's what she wants, and that doesn't give you the right to go f**king rape her. 😡
A raped girl has to face insults and remarks, instead of getting support. Cops don't act quickly or harshly. Boys are not taught to respect women, in fact it is considered manly to be dominant over women. And media encouraging such acts, as if it is all fun. No, it's not. And especially fangirls swooning on hero when he treats the girl like dirt. No, that is not cute or anything.
This is what makes the situation worse. Girls fearing instead of having the courage of facing the situation, and some 🤬(I refuse to call them men) thinking that they get a free pass and can do anything.