Written Update: 21 Dec 2012 - Page 4

Originally posted by: strega

I have been a silent reader for a very long time. And now, I feel compelled to post. Tanyaz and naava - I completely agree with the two of you.. Purvi's behaviour, though she did Arjun wrong, is understandable. I can see where she is coming from.

One other thing I do feel and I do not now if anyone else has posted about this -  Purvi  never showed the respect for Arjun that she displays for Onir. She accepts and respects him for what he is. And she never did that with Arjun. 

Originally posted by: naava

Strega, how nice to see a post from you if you've been a silent reader. Welcome !!

I think  you are right. There is a difference in Purvi's relationship with Dr. Onir, but there is maybe a plausible reason for that.  Firstly I think that he is quite a bit older than she is. He's an established supposedly well known Doctor and she's just a young girl.  We don't have a lot of interaction to react to as the relationship is so new to us, but it seems that from Purvi's point of view he was someone who helped her out in a time of need. Remember she just said the other day, for the first time she thought of him as "husband" instead of doctor.  So that says a lot. She probably was not in love with him but grateful to him.  Although now we see her trying her best to get him to do things her way..😆  .  He's a stronger man than Arjun is and he may not do whatever she asks..or he may. We don't know yet.  He loves her a lot.  Maybe so much that he will give her up when he finds out she really still loves Arjun.  

I always felt that Purvi never felt she was allowed to have a love like Arjun...almost that it was too good to be true.  And that she kind of sabotaged it herself because she felt "like an orphan who didn't have the right to happiness."  

Now that she is with Dr. Onir and he has helped heal some things in her, she may have to come to terms with her own desires.  Maybe not an easy thing to do.  

Originally posted by: strega

Naava - I agree with you. I always felt that Purvi was dragged along in the relationship despite having misgivings re Ovi. At every stage, she was the reluctant one and Arjun the more ardent lover. 

Of course, I do think that, we the viewers, are taking the characters too seriously. We should go with the flow, and take the dialogues at face value. Much better for our sanity :) 

Till now we can't hear Purvi's story. WHY? When She left Mumbai why she going to Kolkata? Where she live? When Archana searching Purvi's mention address one woman told her Purvi left this place. Why? How many days she lives there? How Purvi found that Dr. Onir? How & why she marries Dr. Onir immediately when she missed very badly Arjun? When Purvi feel that she is pregnant? Precap shows that Purvi tells onir that ovi is my sister. Onir says but u said to me that u r orphanage na . purvi says that she had lied to him…My question why Onir decided married to Purvi without any find information? Why firstly they married? Most Important question how months long Purvi are pregnant? Is really Onir is baby's father or Arjun? SBS said & all time people told that Purvi is 8 months pregnant. If that why Archana or Manav can't asking this question? Yes, Archana shocked that very first time saw Purvi after 6 months then also noticed that Purvi is pregnant. But Is she understand Purvi's pregnancy is older than ovi????

How many days r waiting to hear Purvi's story?