i think you like gauri had got it all wrong, Garv was not leaning forward to kiss Guari, he was only leaning over her to get the pillow, gauri missunderstood and pushed him away.
i have a feeling if Garv wanted to kiss Guari he would have simply walked back to and forcefully kissed her.
for all his rusticness, Garv aka vikram Ghaiwaid is a gentelman, and he is a fair and honorable man. if there was any other way to get what was stollen from his family he would not have used gauri as a ponn, but for vikram Gauri is the key. his wepon to fight Appa Sahib.
Garv/vikram never once disrespeted the women of the house hold, and in the food challange he was fair in his judgement. without taking sides.
he was impressed that Gauri, accted like a winner, without putting her sister in law down, mantaining her dignity and keeping it intact.
so despite his mothers and SIL warnings vikram is falling for Gauri. and Gauri with her sweet and sensiable nature will win over his family.
as for vikram Ghaiwaid family, they are rustic, and have a care a damm for the word attitude, but they are not cruel people. not like Assavari, and Appa sahib. but its clear that rajlaxmi must have strugled a lot, to bring up her kids, cause i dont know about the other brother, but she got vikram a good education.