Written Update 13th May

now this is plain too much from lucky's side.

@Pritam...Lucky is making mistake fr sure...but Rocky is just selfish today...😡 he is still seeing to get Ipad and more...and not caring abt the fight that is happenng

🤔    I m still with lucky ji as his way of showing his frustration with daddu may b wrong but issue or his decision regarding IPad is right . Lucky has been understanding & letting go or letting do daddu whatever until now cauz he knows & respects his dad but noone knows kids better than their parents either .

            Sweety until today asked lucky to bow down to daddu's demands as daddu emotionally blackmails her . Which is very wrong . Daddu is isolating lucky in his own house by emotionally blackmailing sweety & kids . Is this grown up behavior ? No . This can strain lucky's relationship with his kids & wife . Daddu should b very proud . What he gains by undermining lucky's authority !!

        If it matters to daddu so much that he buy IPad for rocky , why he never tries to backdown a little or sit down with sweety - lucky & ask that this time for him ( daddu ) they make exception . Then make sure that both ginny - rocky understands that their parents decides its usage . ex. Good grades .

           Lucky is also going to b in different situation once rocky has kids . Each parents has right to raise their kids the way they see fit . This also means what kids needs & what they want . Wanting something doesnt means that they need it . Daddu needs to understand the difference .

        Parents always become the bad guys for making tough but right decision regarding kids . Hardest job in the world while aunts - uncles & grand parents always gets to cake cauz its not their job to say NO . I m not saying others dont care for kids other than parents but parents do rarely gets appreciation for saying NO     

       So daddu needs to stop turning everyone away from lucky & take few steps back . As this time lucky feels no one is with him or understands him . Thus his anger worth of 20 some years is coming out . If u isolate the man u never know he is going to react .

@Nets Wonderfully written..making me think in a different perspective too.

@Nets I always had the feeling that Daadu never wants to see Lucky as a responsible person, father or husband...and is doing everything to put him down in front of kids

Shwets. Once I went to learn sweet recipe to my mum's friend . She gave my great advice " great cook is not the one who makes yummy food , great cook is the one who knows how to make lousy food into yummy one " 😃
     So what if lucky is not the greatest dad in the world . See things through his side . Daddu is not giving lucky chance to present his case or POV . He assumes lucky is wrong . He still pulls his respect card .

    Truth is if v want respect from others , v have to respect others . Its not one way street . Daddu may still see lucky as old lucky but no one remain stuck in past self in their present . Lucky has changed , each event in his life has changed him .

      Right or wrong he has to make choices . If its wrong one then daddu should teach him how to turn in to great one . Without saying told you 😆

        In reality everyone is so focused on right & wrong that v forget the lessons life teaches us . Ex . Child learns to walk , v do let them fall & then help them get up , try again . Why v r so afraid of letting our kids fall in their adult life ? Let lucky make decision & daddu give his advice without insisting lucky do as he says . Also rocky needs to learn the value of money , he wants IPad then let him work for lucky - sweety for 6 months , do things around house or office which gives him lesson or two . Giving rocky everything he desires wont teach anything & he'll b spoiled .

@Nets 

lovely written update..thxx

Thanks for the WU, Shwets!!🤗