Originally posted by Missesha
No one is saying that Ganga is cheating RAT, but it is wrong in the eyes of law to have extra marital affairs, and hence it will affect her big time especially when court cases & custodies are concerned. She needs to be careful.
While having feelings for someone is not in your control, your emotions are. Unfortunately Ganga's existing situations & priorities do not give her the liberty to sweet dream about a relationship. There is lot at stake.
No one is saying that a child's love is sufficient. It is nice to have a man, but not in the inappropriate way, where one ends up losing everything instead of gaining all.
Want to add, most of those who are against Ganga falling for J at present are not against J-Ganga jodi. It is just that the situation and timing is wrong. It should not be treated as bashing Ganga, rather it is bashing CVs. Even if Ganga developed feelings for J, they could have shown her remembering what her priorities are. It is not that women in rural areas don't know about divorce, may be they do not know the legal process, but they still know that it is immoral and unethical to marry someone while you are still married to someone else. She is not going marry J as yet, but next step of falling for J is obviously marriage.
I would never say that Singhs should have handed over Ganga and Mannu to Rat. But the track was not properly developed and it is just OTT drama, like some old Hindi movie. Before this Rat attack, they could have thought to send G somewhere else, declaring that she disappeared. Or after this attack, instead of false bravery, they could have used tact even if it involves telling lies.
Ganga knows Rat then why she did not tell DS/Gahna (Sumi is against her) about that mandir incident? From the beginning, it is shown that she confides in J only. Whereas, a woman like her, specially because she is orphan, she would have trusted DS like mother figure more - initially, she was so overwhelmed with the love DS shown to her, but afterwords, it is onlyJ. If not for Singhs, she should have thought how to save Mannu because Rat knows she is at Jaitsar haveli. But no, all she cared for weeping for J.