Dating

Why does dating lead to more expenses?   I mean going to movies, restaurants spending loads even when not being able to afford.  Yeh baat alag hai if  they are earning they have every right to spend however they what and on whomever they want.  But using parent's money to buy expensive gifts  and stuff and then resorting to wrong ways to continue spending,  why does money become vital. 

If the girl and boy know that they are not able to spend unless they earn, why not have low budget dates why the extravaganza at the cost someone else discomfort.
Edited by kavyasam - 10 years ago

Agreed! It's still ok to spend on urself occasionally even if it's ur parents' money but otherwise..n specially on a bf/gf is so not done!

It's all about impressing the other person. If a guy asks a girl out on a date, he thinks that he needs to impress her and so he does all this extravaganza. But what he doesn't realize is that a simple dinner or a movie every once in a while is enough as well. It's the thought that counts. And the same goes for a girl. A girl thinks that she needs to dress up and look very pretty in name brand clothing, but what she doesn't realize is that a guy can love her for her simple looks as well.

agree with u di...sometimes its abt showing off too..

It is given that the boy has to spend.  But then when they are still in college how can even a boy pay that much.  It is like all the pocket money is for girlfriend only lol.  And if the girl is spending same applies to her.