I think if Kamla Bai stops feeding Neetu's daughter because of Neetu's behavior then there would be no difference between Neetu and Kamla.
Neetu is rich, she feels poor people have no dignity and she feels ashamed of the fact that she has to depend on a maid for her baby's health.
On the other hand Kamla is broad-minded and benevolent. She is doing this solely on the grounds of humanity.
This is what makes Kamla a better person than Neetu.
I am loving the show to the core and Shilpa Shirodkar is fabulous as Kamla.
The first week TRP of 0.8 is very disappointing though I hope the show picks up and does well.