Originally posted by: breezyHey ppl
I donno why but what ever sam says makes lots of sense to me alone. Like when he asks his father to go alone to clinic or so. I mean I find it more practical n true a bit emotion less but thats life is all about if u come from individualistic families...J
Originally posted by: sunshine15I also agree with Sam. He is very practical. (yes he is) He is rude (still don't think it's warranted - the way he speaks to everyone in his family is just not right - he's the youngest and there's a way to go about making your point without being rude about it) , but I am sure there will be some past involved which changed his nature,(agreed, plus I don't think Ishaan would have befriended him if that was his nature to start with) as per Ishan's remark in previous episodes that Samrat wan't like that before.
Regarding incidence with Trisha, I agree with his comment that one should wear appropriate clothes so they won't provoke anybody. In this time when lot of inappropriate things are happening around us, this message is very appropriate for girls. (also agree with this. I am of the same mind frame and somewhat old school in some of my thinking, but at the same time other than her pants being a little tight her clothing was not over the top (ie she wasn't showing a lot of skin, wearing super short skirt or low top etc (that I can recall) so he didn't need to be as rude here either, with the way she was dressed guys may tend to look but it gives no one the right to disrepect, it would have been best had he just minded his own business rather than shouting off his mouth too. In some ways he was no better than those guys that were bothering her)People like Sam are tough from outside but generally very soft hearted. I am sure, once Urmi comes in, he will change from tough to soft. I am loving his grey character, (hope that is the case...I'm going to enjoy watching the transformation)
Originally posted by: Parm.
I agree to some extent but what you say and how you say it is part of the problem here. He doesn't seem to know how to talk with respect. He could have said what he wanted a lot more politely and I'm sure he would not have gotten the same reaction from his family. So far he has been shown to be rude individual and for some reason he thinks he has the right to be like that because he's a successful business man? What happened to be a being a caring, respectful and responsible individual too? Respect should be a too way street... Although I agree that his dad could go by himself with the driver, I also understand his desire for a family member to be with him when he is not well. At the same time though he should realize that his kids cannot drop whatever they are doing to accompany him wherever or whenever he needs it...
P.S. I haven't watched today's epi so hope all of the above still applies, lol!
Originally posted by: blahblahsNice discussion!
I also agree with Samrat in many respects. Somehow, I can even identify with him in the sense that he has worked very hard to make his career what it is. But again, as many people have already suggested, there's a nicer way to say things, especially to your parents. I don't care if a person is having a bad day (which Sam was) and then shouts at all the other people around him, but don't do it to your family! Truth being told, ultimately, those "other" people will curse at the shouting person and forget about him, but the family members will think about the issue and be hurt.Moreover, I don't think that Sam is rude. I think that's just his personality. I think the best adjective to describe him is "bitter" or "cynical." Somewhere deep inside, he's upset that his brother never took any responsibilities and that he was involuntarily burdened with the responsibility of the family. In managing all these things, he had to compromise his youth and enjoyment. Therefore, he is angry.As Ishan suggests, once he realizes that this "fun" in life can be regained by the presence of a significant other, he will change.
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