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Hi... i wanna know something from u all, which has been troubling me since many days! 😔
I am not a tall girl. Just average, 5'. I used to like one guy who was tall enough, around 5'7''. We used to talk to each other alot initially, like late into the nyts. Gradually i started developing feelings for him. I had recently been through a break-up, and hence i all the more felt drawn towards this guy. From what i used to feel, like from his gestures n all, it seemed he liked me too, as in more dan a frend.
N after around 3 months, i told him about my feelings for him. At dat tym, we did get a bit intimate (but nothing major/big). but den wen i asked him does he want us to be in a relationship, he told me 'no'. he said he wanted to be just frends wid me. crazy as i was for him, i said ok but i kept trying to impress him. he never used to like me as he said m short n not exactly as good looking as he wants his gf to be. i tried to look better n dress well, just so dat he can feel something for me, but he didnt. he said he felt uncomfortable being seen with me in college, thinking wat people will say, coz of my height, though i wore heels for him n dat med my height match his. ( i hav an ankle problem, but i always wore heels for him ) . I did everything for him in my capacity, be it wid money, giving gifts, help him in studies. watever he wanted i did it.
Inspite of everything, he never even respected me, forget liking me genuinely. I still kept by him till now, n dat is around 2 years! but now things were getin on my nerves. he used to abuse my parents n den say dat he abused dem coz i was at fault. I mean really?!!! can someone abuse somebody's parents if he/she is angry wid d oder person?!!!! ... on top of dat, he used to tell me i really like dis girl or dat girl n if she ever comes in our college n he is able to impress her, he will definitely go to her, n den used to remind me dat i am just his frend. ... After dese n oder bullshit n hiding things from me stuff he used to do, i finally said i dont wanna be related to u in any way! but den he cem running bek to me, calling me 100s of tyms dat he cant live widout me n all dat ... i cant believe it or understand it. d person who treats me like a trash wen m wid him n tek his care, d sem person comes running after me wen i say of breaking ties wid him!!!! ...i really cry wen i think about wat he med me n my parents go thro in past 2 years.
i just want to ask u all, is it okay wat i did, by breaking up wid him? he has lost his mom, so i always wanted to be dere for him, but how long can i continue to be humiliated by him n he abusing my parents just for d soft corner i once had for him?!!!! he tells me i am immature to break up wid him, coz he has not done any crime like sleeping wid someone else,etc. Is it necessary dat someone breaks-up wid u only wen he/she has done an unpardonable crime?!!! is being humiliated in return of taking care of u, not a reason enough?!!! i really hav tears ryt now
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