If you are thinking about messaging her at all, you should go ahead and do it instead of letting this whole "should I? or should i not?" feeling eat at you.
What is the worst thing to happen here? Are you afraid that she will hold it against you and indulge in the fleeting thrill of being "right" and glow with the ever so slightly "superior" feeling? Don't be. If she is a friend enough, she will understand that it is a lot coming from you, that you are swallowing your pride and approaching her... and putting your dignity at stake by leaving the consequences in her hands.
If she chooses the pathetic route, you will get a closure from it and you can move on without the regretful feeling of "what if, what woulda happened if i had made the effort to talk" and so on.
I say go ahead... do it smartly though. Keep your dignity intact in a way that it's hard for her to turn it around and put you on blast. It's always better to regret something you did than regret not doing it.
Good luck.
Edited by Easy_A - 10 years ago