here is the scenario,, But
What would YOU do?
You are separated for a long time, but your ex-partner keeps on making attempts to come close by FB or messages through friends or stalking. Initially your replies used to be about closure such as we need to close this account and that account, never once have you talked about reconciliation because you have withdrawn yourself from the relationship and don't entertain that thought.
During the course of the relationship you found out some not so nice things about her such as medication they need to take for basic mental functioning. Perhaps also that her family becomes involved to the extent that they have regular access to your bank accounts and use her mental imbalances/condition to manipulate her. Basically it could be anything serious that you weren't told prior, so you were lied to.. it could be that she has 2 kids, or he has 2 kids, the person was married before, they were in jail .. whatever it was .. it was serious, make up whatever you want but the girl and her family are bad news.
but you have moved on from that... so FFW
that girl's family is now pursuing another person, and that person's friend makes contact with you and asks you to tell is it true " I head such such such, does she still try to contact you?", "I've see that the family is involved deeply in her brothers relationship too and ruined it, but what is she like?" " It's a matter of his life please tell us what you know, my friend is falling but wants to know, and we are afraid she isn't what she seems" " when did she last try to make contact with you" blah blah and they are desperate to save their friend ..
What do you say? Do you confirm she is on medication? That her family will make her do stupid things? That she still tries to get back together?
