Him: "what about me? I'm not included in you plans?"
And obviously since he was teasing me I thought I could tease him back and I responded
You: "you're never included in any of plans ever. :-P "
To which he replied "ha ha I was kidding."
And he sounded a little off to me so I asked him if he's okay? and he's like you know you were a little harsh.
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That's just one interaction.. You could have added, oh I knew you were kidding, that's why I was going with the flow, don't take it to your heart. Or something to that effect. Or you could have just said, it's not like your plans have me written all over them either, is it? 😆
It happens all the time, you wanna say something and the other person ends up taking it as something else altogether.
Is he introverted too or is he chill? Well, he doesn't sound chill if he was taken aback by something you said in a silly way, but who knows.