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It is well said that precaution is better than cure.
It's good to help someone infact to help your friend when they are in need , but to help someone whom you don't now or to whom you are not in touch with since long time , then to provide that person help that too going beyond limits is not correct. As humanity one person should help out the other one but in manner and according and considering the time .
Priya helped out her old friend , it is good when she helped her out but she is wrong when goes beyond all limits to help that person out . She should have thought that she hasn't met her since long time and when in today's world all people are selfish and thought for themselves only and also when people changes with time , priya helped out her friend. She brought that person to her home between her family members without giving a second thought that person might have changed and may be that person becomes harmful to her family . That person might be changed since she had met with her long back and may be linked to any wrong people and be proved to be dangerous to her family too , But no, priya help her out without any thinking and brought that friend in her family . It's good to help but help should be given in some manner , priya should have thought that by bringing some unknown person or some very old friend to whom she has not met since ages and keeping her in between her family members might have put her family members life in danger.
This is ' Kalyug' and as people say stay save so she should have not provided help to her friend in this manner , may be should provided her a job and a house separately but shouldn't kept her along with her family members , today's world and in today's time a person should thought about safety and when it comes about one's own family then he/she should be alert in that case.
It's good that juhi was not linked to bad people or till now she has not harmed any KM family member physically or financially but if that was the case then what would have priya done , she was her friend , she brought her in KM ; then if juhi would had proved to be dangerous what face should priya have shown to her family members .
Juhi was not linked to bad people but she has done her job in the house by making her position by hook or by crook. May be she has not harmed any member physically or financially but she has harmed KM's kids mentally , she made use of time and situation in her own way and made Km's kids mentally week or selfish or one can say KM's kids are not able to take such decisions which are not in their favor because they don't have that much strength. Just to make herself 'Mahaan' in the eyes of KM's members juhi has provided her service to those people , by making every kid's wish true she has not thought whether the wish made is correct or wrong but by making their wish true she injected in kids brain that they are kids of rich people who can demand anything and have anything . Juhi has just enjoyed her status being associated with rich people. It seems like she has done everything to prove herself and to make her position in KM. Now she is even stealing money from Ram's cupboard. Have she has truly loved him then she would have thought that this money is hard work of Ram , he worked day and night for earning for family and trusts his family members friends that much that he allowed all of them to enter in his room in his absence also and keeping that trust aside she is doing all this. Have she ever loved him , if she have then would have respected his feelings for priya and others and should have respected his trust atleast. It's very hard to accept that she even loved him when it looks like she was not even infatuated to him , she was only making her points in his and kids book to make herself powerful and famous by seeing her future with Ram and his Family.
For juhi the statement would not be wrong in any sense " Jiss thali main khaya ussi main ched kiya'
Infact Rajat also helped priya in dubai but in a way, he has not allowed her to live in his house with his own family, initially how much do he know about her she met him as a stranger who helped his kid to reach to dubai, she is a good human but that was unknown by him , then also after many requests by her he helped her out as humanity but in a way by providing a job but not by keeping her in his own house in between his family members.
Priya should have thought about it and should have helped people in a proper way and not by going beyond limits that could be dangerous to her and her family members.
On other hand Ram loved every person without any conditions whether it is his wife, kids, family or friends. But he agreed to take help of a outside person when all other family members are their. In fact he goes beyond limits to take help and provide help to that person. It's fine that he wants to provide his kids a normal environment of upbringing and don't want's their mother's ill health effects on their life or can say that he do not want that his kids should miss their mother and effect their life. He took help from juhi but that was beyond limits , he allowed his kids to call her 'maa' when he knows very well that priya is alive and she will always be their mother.
Obliviously priya have felt bad by this , he should have thought that what would he felt if in his absence priya have allowed their kids to call someone else as dad and reason given by her might be because Ram was busy in business so that person helped her in upbringing their kids and kids are very attached to that person so she allowed them to call that person as dad...how would he felt then ( obviously this would have been insane) . Priya was alive when he took the decision to divorce her and marry juhi , that time he said that he will make sure that every thing is provided to priya and all medical treatments bills were paid by him, really ...this is disgusting ...is that much only he knows his wife ...he doesn't know that she will not take any kind of his help when that help will be provided like performing responsibility and that too when he himself had killed their relationship. Priya is self respected woman and inspite of being in coma , instead of taking his help in this manner she would have left the world. Ram had just gone beyond limits for helping out a friend ( since in seven years they were together as friends , he knows her since 7 years , so he accepts her as a friend) that he putted a scar on his own love that too for lifetime. Ram thought he will return her favor in this manner , but on the first note why he taken the favor from her , why he allowed her enter in his beautiful world where he already have lovable wife and kids whom he loved most. He allowed her to enter in the family , he allowed her to take care of his kids , he allowed her enter in his room and touch things without his permission. Ram was a private person initially but priya made him to share his things and talks with her, has he totally forgotten about her that time that he allowed another person to enter in his life that too when he still claims that he loves priya.
He has only saw that she is taking care of his kids but doesn't saw that how the care has been taken , is he is a kid who don't know what is correct and what is wrong, is he can't see on which path his kids are going and what values are being injected in them. He only knows to give love to everyone and that love make him to make everyone's wish come true whether it's correct or wrong. He said that he brought up his kids like priya wants to and has taken every decision in her absence after thinking 'agar priya hoti tho who kiyaa decision leti' , is these are the values which priya wants in their kids. Obliviously Priya felt bad when she came to know that her husband's choices have changed her kids are not mode in which she wants them to be and obviously she would had felt bad after knowing her husband and kids have allowed another person in their life on her place in her absence. What if priya have allowed another person in her life as a friend only in the absence of Ram, obliviously he would have also felt bad like her , this is human nature.
Both Ram and Priya have gone beyond limits to help other people out. Both of them have given unconditional love to all. They have helped people in a manner which is out of limits , at least they should have think about their family's safety before helping people out because it is requirement of time and today's world. Humanity is good , a person should help other person in need as humanity but in a manner and according to time and world. For Raya and people like them the statement will do all correct " Precaution is better than cure"
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