If someone loves and respects you, chances are you have "control" over them in the sense that they listen to the things you say and look up to you... but no matter how much control you think you have on that person, chances are you have put your cards on the table for all they're worth as well and the other person has the same amount of control over you if not more... even if that person is not as in-your-face about it. It's a shared responsibility ... and the control thing is a two way street. Anything else than that indicates an unbalanced dynamic to me and I feel that it's a wheel that doesn't squeak and gets ignored until it breaks. Just my two cents on the topic of discussion revolving around control here.
@ Pencil... don't be disheartened that you're milk.. ... imagine being WATER? poor aquarius.. 😆