Looks.. cuz there needs to be physical attraction, otherwise I friend zone him.
Personality: This is very important. Even looks can't make up for it if there is no personality or the kind that turns me off.
Loyalty
Financially secure,
Should help me be the best I can be and not who he thinks I should be, and certainly not the kind who is only best for him,
Shouldn't be intimidated by me,
Sense of humor and charisma.. This matters cuz he needs to make me laugh and blush as well.
Umm.. taller than me and I need a good gap in the height cuz I need to be able to wear heels.
Needs to be able to hold an intelligent conversation when it's needed.
Has to be doing something in life or going somewhere in life cuz ambition is important.. in fact, nonnegotiable.
Surprises me, tells me what he likes and what matters to him,
Makes me ask a million and one questions and still makes me wanna know more, makes me wonder, laugh and listen,
Is kind, patient and present,
Makes everything fun, new, thoughtful and worth it.
Should be somewhat of a catch.. and have an edge to himself. Not an out and out "badboy" cuz I can't imagine myself with someone who I don't consider to be good and kind and neither do I purposefully seek out someone crude or inconsiderate. I believe that most people are good people and I certainly don't want to be with a guy whose only plus factor is that he is a "nice" guy.
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