Originally posted by -...mohini...-
Ugghh!! I wasnt able to pay proper attention to their scenes! π
(you know why π)
Nevertheless VeeBa scenes was nice... & realistic too!
This is the most common issue in a relationship... where one person wants to get married while the other one does not!
Like I've said before, both are right in their own places!
Veera is just 22 & wants to live & explore her life & relationship with Baldev more! Nobody marries at her age now a days!
Moreover she's right that mentally both of them r quite immature to get married at this point of time & they need to know each other perfectly before tying the knot!
Baldev was right in his own place!
He's in his late twenties & most guys of his age marry & settle down!
Since he is brought up in a village environment, the concept of being in a relationship for longer period of time is pretty new to him! For him if two ppl are in love, they shld get married asap, which is not wrong if you try look frm his pov!
But logically even he's not prepared for marriage!
He's not financially independent which is the biggest roadblock!
He has to first realise the importance of becoming independent & the fact that R & SS family wont marry off Veera to a person who is infact unemployed!
Btw today he thought that Veera was doing just timepass wen she said that she isnt thinking abt getting married now!
He must have surely remembered the time wen she has faked her love, albeit in the back of his mind!
His angry expressions in the first scene was amazing too!
Both Vish & Di were awesome today... especially in the sec scene!
And I just loved the fact that even after all the fights he didnt leave her there all alone but actually dropped her home although he was still very angry with her!
Thats responsibility!
Also Im glad that they are showing such issues cropping up in their relationship & the fact that both are talking to each other abt it!
Now the thing they need to learn is adjustments & compromises in a relationship!
We knw that for the time being Baldev is going to compromise first by understanding Veera's desires of exploring life & relationship before getting married!
But eventually she'll have to marry him once the family get to knw abt the relationship & only after they approve it... since its a village & both just cant roam around like a couple freely!
Thanks to Chidiya, I have no idea what I have written in the post and my mind has diverted again π