Veera loves only herself - Page 3

Originally posted by: feck

Sonu, It is human nature to vent out at the first place on the person who loves you most. It happens to couples, it happens in a husband wife relation also. The problem is the moment Ratan gave her approval, the next moment she was thinking about Ranvee's approval and then marriage. This is what made her irritated. At this point if both SS and B3 family give their approval, they will want them to get married. I don't blame them. It is also human psychology that if both families are OK with it then what's their to wait. At this point she expected support from Baldev. She reminded him you  told me you will wait for me. Baldev let a golden opportunity go. All he needed to say was I'm still saying the same, all I want our families to know and approve our relationship, so that even we can also be tense free. I leave the decission to you when will we get married. But being born and brought up in the pind, he also thinks in the same way as Ratan. Marriage is a very big decission and it is their life. Veera repetitively said it to Baldev, I don't want any one else to decide on our behalf. Her behaviour was out of anxity. She is fearing if both famlies are OK, then she might have to get married before she was actually prepared for it. Tell me honestly how many girls in todays scenario are actually willing to get married at the age of 22?. Nihal highlighted this point to Ratan. We tend to blame Veera, tell me even for once have Baldev raised the point to her that he is of the same age as Ranvee. If she is 22, they might be 27 or 28. This is when in Indian families parents starts planning about their sons marriage and Bansuri very aptly said in case of an arranged marriage it takes time. So if they start planning now they might end up getting him married at the age of 30.

Baldev loves her unconditionally and so does Veera. Remeber every one is not equally expressive about their feelings. Baldev has given him support in every other aspect and she trusts him on those as well. She acknowledged to Baldev, your support strengthens me. But this is the most sensitive issue, unfortunately Baldev have not been able to give her that same support, that sense of security here, instead it seems to her, that even he is also wanting to force her into marriage. If she had continued arguing, it might have led to another fight may be another misunderstanding. That's why she left, at least in this case her concern for her Veerji was actually an excuse for leaving and even before leaving she told Baldev I don't want to bring our fight in this now.

Originally posted by: feck

Sonu, It is human nature to vent out at the first place on the person who loves you most. It happens to couples, it happens in a husband wife relation also. The problem is the moment Ratan gave her approval, the next moment she was thinking about Ranvee's approval and then marriage. This is what made her irritated. At this point if both SS and B3 family give their approval, they will want them to get married. I don't blame them. It is also human psychology that if both families are OK with it then what's their to wait. At this point she expected support from Baldev. She reminded him you  told me you will wait for me. Baldev let a golden opportunity go. All he needed to say was I'm still saying the same, all I want our families to know and approve our relationship, so that even we can also be tense free. I leave the decission to you when will we get married. But being born and brought up in the pind, he also thinks in the same way as Ratan. Marriage is a very big decission and it is their life. Veera repetitively said it to Baldev, I don't want any one else to decide on our behalf. Her behaviour was out of anxity. She is fearing if both famlies are OK, then she might have to get married before she was actually prepared for it. Tell me honestly how many girls in todays scenario are actually willing to get married at the age of 22?. Nihal highlighted this point to Ratan. We tend to blame Veera, tell me even for once have Baldev raised the point to her that he is of the same age as Ranvee. If she is 22, they might be 27 or 28. This is when in Indian families parents starts planning about their sons marriage and Bansuri very aptly said in case of an arranged marriage it takes time. So if they start planning now they might end up getting him married at the age of 30.

Baldev loves her unconditionally and so does Veera. Remeber every one is not equally expressive about their feelings. Baldev has given him support in every other aspect and she trusts him on those as well. She acknowledged to Baldev, your support strengthens me. But this is the most sensitive issue, unfortunately Baldev have not been able to give her that same support, that sense of security here, instead it seems to her, that even he is also wanting to force her into marriage. If she had continued arguing, it might have led to another fight may be another misunderstanding. That's why she left, at least in this case her concern for her Veerji was actually an excuse for leaving and even before leaving she told Baldev I don't want to bring our fight in this now.