Since the topic is about dealing with errant family members who cause great deal of harm
Jagya Sanchi are given as examples of black sheep
Jagya came back asking for forgiveness but Anandi and family didn't take him back.
Now no one wanted Anandi to accept him back as her husband.
She could have said that she has forgiven him for the sake of the family but can't take him back as her husband at the beginning itself.Then the family would have taken him back and helped him mend his ways but she didn't forgive him the family felt obliged to ostracise him and that made things very bad for Anandi and everyone.
Had he had family support he would have seen sense much earlier would have caused a lot less damage all around
Sanchi was obnoxious - she was foolish and kept doing things that harmed her more than anyone else.Ultimately it resulted a public humiliation.But she survived and mended her ways because the family was with her and that was the lesson that Anandi learnt from seeing what happened to J.
Kicking out DB is very much like kicking out Jagya.Here both Jagya and DB both wanted their family around them and they need their family.Denying life support system is not going to give good results.If DB is kicked out she will be more vengeful and will cause bigger damage.
The question here is dealing with the black sheep of the family and how would one deal with them
My question is how do we deal with family members who are forever causing some problem or other