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Track: Taming the Shrew - Take 2
Height of Immaturity
Today's episode made we wonder who is the emotionally immature adult?
Is it Rhea, Lavanya or Anuja? Well ... .. yes, you are right!!
It is the three of them. But Rhea beat the other two hands down.
At the outset let me explain my take on Pakhi and Veer's behavior.
Naturally at first they were at a loss - wondering what to do with Rhea's volcanic behavior towards them. I call it volcanic because she was literally spewing venom towards PakhVeer.
The first step in dealing with a difficult person is to understand what it is; if you can see it clearly, action is rather simple. And that is precisely that PakhVeer did - they saw Rhea's behavior as rebellion enhanced by hormones. They quickly analyzed it to its simplest element - Rhea's reflex to do the opposite of what Veer requests her to do. So the solution was to request her to do the opposite of what they intend. This thinking helped them to move from square one and come up with a plan to deal with difficult Rhea.
So now why do I say Rhea is emotionally immature?
By that I mean she only thinks of herself. In other words, she is self-centered, self-absorbed, selfish, uncaring, feels she is better, and so on. She seeks to control the environment to fulfill her desires in spite of the fact that it might be an inconvenience or even a harm to others around her. For Rhea some people are to be loved while others are lesser human beings - all due to her fantasies. She is impossible and stubborn for all the wrong reasons, and is completely toxic.
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