Posted:
17 years ago
if we think practically? i doubt it's love...like take for example the new movie Nishabd [as you mentioned] i dont see an actual LOVE there...it all seems centred around infatuation...she's walking around in barely there shorts...and theres sexual tension...so that movie is portrayin a sexual desire but i think is masking it as REAL LOVE.
The character Jiah comes from a broken family...no dad...it's possible she just wants to feel loved and wanted...plus, Big B represents that father figure...
But say a film like Joggers Park was mature in its handling of the situation.
Even K-serials are better, as they show the gradual love blossomin between a couple whose age difference is prety huge.
But yeh...i think if the difference is 60 and 17...there is something else going on there...the 17 yr old could love what the 60yr old symbolises...stability and the 60 yr old could be attracted to the "youthfulness".
But then again, i also believe that it IS possible to control your feelings, so like when you meet someone that old...you just automatically categorise them under the "old prsn that needs respect" category...*shrugs*
and anyways, if we take the movie again, BigB kind of bordered on paedophilia...AND almost breached his duty of care...
but yeah...sorry about that long post 😆 and i know i probably didnt make much sense...if any at all! 😆