Posted:
16 years ago
We all know if somebody expects us to change for them, its not true love. But do we change for the one we love? Ofcourse we do. and i can say that from peronal experience. I wud not define myself as a very adjusting person. All my life i have ben this stubborn girl doing only what i like. Once i fell in love, i am surprised at how much i have changed. And u know what, i never ever realized that. Its not like that my lover asked me to change something or do something. It was all gradual , automatic process and 1 year down the line we both are changed person and love each other even more deeply. And mind u, none of us pressurized the other for anything.
So what i feel is that, if u truly luv each other no one will ask to change u but maybe a lot of change will take place and for the better.
As for the original question, well these all are little things, like changing your hairstyle, dressing sense etc. Changing religion depends on the situation and should be a personal choice.
But if somebody asks you 'Please change for me, i like it better that way' , then that person is not worth changing for.