Do dil mil rahey hain... magar Internet peh...π
Hey Friends !!!π€π€
Hows ya all doin'? First of all I want to apologize for being VERY VERY late in posting this SOTW thread. I am not well and I had been away from I-F for one week but before that I was too busy with other things on the forum that I never got time for SOTWπ. But I know you all had been waiting for it impatiently?!βΊοΈ (Say YES.. say YES !!π)
Here is the situation for this week (Actually.. erm, this situation is basically for all girls out there but IF boys are willing to participate then their suggestions on this situation are also welcomed xD):
You met a guy 'M' on Internet or say Orkut. You both belong to same religion.. and live in same city. But before you became friends with this guy... your female friend 'F' was already friends with 'M' through Internet. But this guy called 'F' his 'Sister'. So sister and brother exchanged their cell numbers and started to chat thru sms and then finally thru calls too. Then one day 'M' asks u for your number nd you give him without hesitation since you know he is a nice guy and your friend 'F' calls him her Bro.
Finally one day that guy proposes you. You accept his proposal. Your friend 'F' is an evidence of your relationship... she knows that this guy proposed you and that you are not lieing. You share ur pictures with him on internet. Everything was going fine until one day you both had a big fight. Chotte motte fights to hote hi rehte they but... bada fight us din hua.. The thing is that 'YOU' have always been in pressure that he might do something wrong with your pics. and that is why you feel like not shoutin at him because you feel somethin will go wrong ur way.. Jaise taise that fight was solved.
One day you get to know on orkut that he has another girlfriend. You are shocked to know. You can see the girl scrapping him .. but u dun see a response frm ur bf - 'M'. What will you do in this type of situation? First of all, I'd want to know if you believe in online love stories?!
In love you are blind nd therefore you shared ur pics with him without thinkin for once. Now you are scared that he might do somethin wrong with ur pics.. like if you break up with him, he might get frustated nd angry nd he would do something really wrong. But you know that he alredi has one gf nd he never told you regardin this nd you cannot jus keep quiet after knowin this :s..
Lol!! Okay, sorry but this situation completely reminded me of what I had been through when I first fell in love. It was through orkut and I also shared my pics, etc. Later on, we had a fight and lost ocntact for a while and at that time, the only thought that haunted me was..my pics are with him! What will he do? πππ
Anywayyy...what makes this situation different is that there is another girl who already likes "M"...hmmm...
I guess I'd just talk to him about that girl and ask why he did all that and just make him tell you the truth- who was he playing with? You or the other girl? Personally, I'm not much of a revenge type of person π so I wouldn't really know how to get back at him...so I'd probably just aks him a few question as to why he did it and just keep my distance from him, but if it's true love, then you can't even forget him π so well, if he really loves the other girl, I'd be happy knowing his happiness is with her, so I'll gradually go away from him...but pics!!!?π *I, myself, did this, but just to be on the safe side, don't share your pics with anyone online...esp. people you barely know*π I'd just hope and pray that he wouldn't do anything with my pics and I believe that if I calmly have a talk with him about this matter, he'd listen to me and just delete the pics since he loves the other girl anyway π
Hopefully, no one gets into this situation...it's scary
But I know you all had been waiting for it impatiently?!βΊοΈ (Say YES.. say YES !!π) Hehee.. i was.. π³ π
What will you do in this type of situation? First of all, I'd want to know if you believe in online love stories?! Well no i dont believe in online love stories.. but i still like talking about it.. π³ Okiee in this type of situation i'll pretend i dont know anything.. i'll just act normal. then one day go to his house and while he's not there (let's say i told him to make me some tea or something) i'll go on his comp and delete all pictures of me. and by d time if he comes and sees what im doing i'll say i was just looking at d pictures.. then basically i'll just sneak on his comp and delete d pics.. then my mouth will talk..and i'll shout and do anything in my anger.. really angryy.. if he threathens about d pics i'll tell him i deleted them so their's no one he can get them back.. π
Do dil mil rahey hain... magar Internet peh...π
------------------------------------------------------------ -------i would start asking if he likes being on orkut and likes scrapping..just to see his reaction!π and then i might start asking if he had been seeing another girl! and why he never told me about it!π€’
i don't think that sharing ur pic has to do with being blind in love.. i just think it's all about being curious about each other!π But yeah i agree there is always a risk that ur pic might be misused for some other purpose!