Hey Guys!
This is the first time I am starting the official DOTW thread so please do participate in it! ;) heh. Today, we'd discuss if Love marriages work or not. You also have to give examples of the people you know who were in Love and after hard struggle and fights with parents, siblings.. they got married. :) and you have to tell if they are happily married or not.
My aunt's daughter had a love marriage.. which is NOT doing good now. They have only one kid. But I think that the reason behind their relationship not working is that.. they have financial problems and they always end up fighting about things like that.
My Mom's best friend had a love marriage.. Mom's friend and the guy she loved, had to argue a lot to their parents bec their parents were not allowing them to get married. The guy's parents said that the girl wasn't good-looking and same was the complain frm girl's side (For the boy, ofcourse!) But after great struggle, their parents agreed. And you know at this point of time (when your parents dun agree on gettin married to the person u love) you realize how much you love that person and how much that person loves you.
Because I have seen in many cases that the guy and girl end up losin their hopes and agreeing to their parents decision and break up with each other bec somebody told them to. I feel.. whatever the circumstances may be.. you should always stand by the person you love and you should try your hardest to make your parents agree or watever the hurdles are coming in between ur marriage.
Also, my mom's best friend's Parents said that the guy doesn't earn good and we can't let our daughter marry to a guy who is not very qualified and cannot earn good.
MashaAllah, today, my mom's best friend is settled in America with her husband. And that guy earns A LOT! They are very rich and are living a GREAT life. 😃 They still love and care about each other the same! 😳
So I guess.. it depends from person to person and their love. :S I know that you should stand by the person u love no matter what! Even durin the bad days of his life. Theres one sentence I'd like to quote, normally spoken by the Parents,
"Pyaar se pait bhar jaye ga tumhara? Paise nahi honge to kahan se pait bharo ge? Pyaar se? Phir humare paas mat lautna rote huey."
True though!! If you are married and the guy you love isn't earing good.. then is your love going to full your stomach? No! You need food to live, not love. I agree on this point with the Parents. But one should struggle and earn good if he really loves that girl who he claims to love!!! 😳
Please share your views on this!! 😳
And guys, this is just to inform you all that I'd be away from the forum for 2 months due to exams. So please cooperate with my viewbies and Anon (who will be very active here in my absence). Do not spam the forum and be a good bacha! 😃😆
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